"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whats the best way to meet women this summer as a newly single Dad?

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Hi everybody, I split up with my sons mother and after 6 months am ready to meet new woman in my life. I am 28 and I want to enjoy meeting and dating different women this summer. What activities would you guys recommend to help me meet as many woman as possible? Also, I'm gonna start doing some approaches and know that a lot of rejection is coming my way lo. What's the best mindset when dealing with rejection?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approaching at Coffee Shops and Cafes in the morning

Parks and malls in the afternoon

Bars and clubs at night

Events that women like such as Coachella or the Governor's ball.

I just saw an Instagram story post of a Bachata dance class where there were so many more women than men that there were 3 pairs of women dancing together.
 

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Popular beaches and casinos are other options. Casinos have the added benefit of knowing everyone is 21+
 

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Posting up by the women's restroom of a busy shopping mall or hanging out in the ladies intimate apparel section of the local department store are some sure fire activities that will put you in the zone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Apartment swimming pools
This can be good though be careful with this. Pool parties as a whole tend to be sausage fests.

I did a thread on pool parties and it got 0 responses. I don't think most men have success at bigger pool parties.


A smaller apartment complex pool has better potential than a somewhat organized pool party like I described in the attached thread.

It would be so easy for a single dad to take a kid to a park and pick up single moms.
 

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This can be good though be careful with this. Pool parties as a whole tend to be sausage fests.
Really? That kind of surprise me, I would think women would be more interested in that to catch some sun and get a tan.
 

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Really? That kind of surprise me, I would think women would be more interested in that to catch some sun and get a tan.
There's a difference between meeting women at the pool of an apartment complex of 200+ units in a bigger city vs. meeting women at a larger pool party with with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending.

The apartment complex pool is typically less people (usually less than 30). Most apartment complex pools don't have enough room for larger parties. It's kind of close to social circle game. Residents of the complex can meet each other. Often times, residents of that complex have a friend or two joining them who doesn't live in the complex. It's actually easier to approach in this setting as people are more relaxed here as compared to the nightlife type vibe of the second type of pool party.

A man will need approach skill even at a small apartment complex pool, just as he would need skill at the bigger pool parties connected to a business.

The bigger pool parties attached to businesses in most cities (I'm not including the Las Vegas Strip as part of this definition) are sausage fests because a lot of groups of guys have the same idea you have. It's a more nightlife type vibe but during the daytime hours. There are more groups of guys who go to these than groups of women. Also, many couples go to these.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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