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63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

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Came across this article from Brietbart today (there isn’t much political elements in the article and I’m not trying to start a discussion on politics) that reported 63% of men aged 18-29 in the US are single, while most women in that age group are in a relationship with only about 34% of them being single. The article goes on to report that while young men are far more likely to be single than middle aged men, it also showed that young women are single at the same rate of women aged 65+. It also showed that 50% of single young men are looking for relationships or casual dating, while only 35% of single young women in the same age group are looking for that as well, both of those percentages are a decrease from 2019.

The article also reports that today’s easy access to porn is one reason for this because men are getting their sexual needs satisfied with that while they’re home alone without having to go out and be social or spend money to take a woman on a date. The article also says that a lot of younger women are opting to date older men because they don’t want to settle and date someone who’s either equal or lower than them in terms of social status and they don’t want to date a man who makes less money than they do. Even though the article reports that the majority of post college jobs are being filled by women and that women are now much more likely than men to pursue a college education these days, which in turn makes women not see these non-college men as a dating option since they’re less educated and at a lower income than they are and women feel like they would be “dating down” by getting involved with any of those men.

Your thoughts?

https://www.breitbart.com/politics/...66692&utm_medium=social&utm_source=linkin.bio
 

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My thoughts? We're steadfastly approaching a collapse of western society and if people don't see this is as an issue that concerns me. (we've already collapsed in my eyes)

This divide between men and women is growing and if we look at trends it will only continue this direction. More men will become redpill and view women in an entirely different light like we are already seeing. The majority I imagine will move further towards MGTOW ideology consciously or not. So many men have already 'given up' and I only see that getting worse with time unfortunately. I pity them

Enjoy the decline and get yours I say....
Embrace the brokenness of it all and take advantage of it. Know your worth and don't drop your standards for the delusional and entitled masses. Stay away from those that take on the victim mindset, they will only bring you down further as water finds its own level. It is what it is and it will probably only get worse. The pendulum will not swing backwards to a pre sexual revolution world.

Also, in a way I think a man who would rather stay home and whack it is a 'loser', but at the same time I understand why they don't even bother with dating. Most modern young women are not worth a relationship, the same can be said for a good chunk of men.
 

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The Duke

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My thoughts? We're steadfastly approaching a collapse of western society and if people don't see this is as an issue that concerns me. (we've already collapsed in my eyes)

This divide between men and women is growing and if we look at trends it will only continue this direction. More men will become redpill and view women in an entirely different light like we are already seeing. The majority I imagine will move further towards MGTOW ideology consciously or not. So many men have already 'given up' and I only see that getting worse with time unfortunately. I pity them

Enjoy the decline and get yours I say....
Embrace the brokenness of it all and take advantage of it. Know your worth and don't drop your standards for the delusional and entitled masses. Stay away from those that take on the victim mindset, they will only bring you down further as water finds its own level. It is what it is and it will probably only get worse. The pendulum will not swing backwards to a pre sexual revolution world.

Also, in a way I think a man who would rather stay home and whack it is a 'loser', but at the same time I understand why they don't even bother with dating. Most modern young women are not worth a relationship, the same can be said for a good chunk of men.
It's like the rich get richer, and the poor get poorer. The middle is becoming extinct.

I can understand why guys in the middle would give up and fall into the poor class and go without pu$$y. Women have overvalued themselves and society and social media have helped them.
 

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I feel bad for zoomers. They don't know how good we had it in the 90s/early 2000s.
The early Millennials didn't have it that great in the late 1990s/early 2000s as they were 18-21.
 

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Came across this article from Brietbart today (there isn’t much political elements in the article and I’m not trying to start a discussion on politics) that reported 63% of men aged 18-29 in the US are single, while most women in that age group are in a relationship with only about 34% of them being single. The article goes on to report that while young men are far more likely to be single than middle aged men, it also showed that young women are single at the same rate of women aged 65+. It also showed that 50% of single young men are looking for relationships or casual dating, while only 35% of single young women in the same age group are looking for that as well, both of those percentages are a decrease from 2019.
Stop listening to Breibart.


The article also reports that today’s easy access to porn is one reason for this because men are getting their sexual needs satisfied with that while they’re home alone without having to go out and be social or spend money to take a woman on a date. The article also says that a lot of younger women are opting to date older men because they don’t want to settle and date someone who’s either equal or lower than them in terms of social status and they don’t want to date a man who makes less money than they do. Even though the article reports that the majority of post college jobs are being filled by women and that women are now much more likely than men to pursue a college education these days, which in turn makes women not see these non-college men as a dating option since they’re less educated and at a lower income than they are and women feel like they would be “dating down” by getting involved with any of those men.
You will find the same people who sponsor Breibart are also the same people who own said porn sites. They are projecting porn site stats on the rest of the country.

Also college women are not more educated just for going to college. They are still dumb as hell. They just say the same stuff with a bigger vocabulary and more annoying technical terms.

"You're gaslighting me."

"That's an ad hominen."
 

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It has been interesting to watch my value drop even when my LMS goes up. very strange. I've seen it within relationships as OLD became more common and my girlfriends became more curious about it.
My married friends and their wives are baffled by why I'm still single. Even after explaining how women today expect way more than they're worth that I simply do not put up with it. Some of them think I'm exaggerating and one of the wives thinks there's something wrong with me. I have my flaws but I don't have a fatal one. She thinks I'm hiding something lol
 

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My married friends and their wives are baffled by why I'm still single. Even after explaining how women today expect way more than they're worth that I simply do not put up with it. Some of them think I'm exaggerating and one of the wives thinks there's something wrong with me. I have my flaws but I don't have a fatal one. She thinks I'm hiding something lol
I'm having a similar issue. I'm one of the hottest guys in my circle but I don't have a gf at least as far as they are concerned. Yet they like me. So it's like they're confused on the fence thinking that maybe something is wrong with me cause I don't have a girl yet their senses clearly say that I'm attractive. They also know I f*ck. Women are silly like that.
 

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I'm having a similar issue. I'm one of the hottest guys in my circle but I don't have a gf at least as far as they are concerned. Yet they like me. So it's like they're confused on the fence thinking that maybe something is wrong with me cause I don't have a girl yet their senses clearly say that I'm attractive. They also know I f*ck. Women are silly like that.
The reality is I've been single for a year and I'm getting more and more comfortable with doing things solo like traveling and going to random places. Idk if that's a good or bad thing.
 

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Hilariously I've been thinking about getting a girl so I can at least have more open chances in the group, along with getting invited to things. Mostly for networking and a little social circle gaming. Sometimes you gotta play the game.
 

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The reality is I've been single for a year and I'm getting more and more comfortable with doing things solo like traveling and going to random places. Idk if that's a good or bad thing.
Been a good thing for me. I enjoy being free and doing what I want to, going where I want to, spending my money on ME. I still talk to plenty of women but not trying to date them or anything, but to hell with dating in America. So tired of women mid 30-40 acting like they’re better than me, who can’t keep a man longer than a couple months at most and live on online dating sites looking down on everyone.
 

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When I was my 20s I didn’t want to stay at home, I wanted to go all out all the time, chasing girls.

Men want sex, women want commitment. The problem is when the woman is encouraged to bed as many guys as possible when she is hot, and when society and courts back the (fertile) woman in almost all cases, it’s not worth it for a guy.
 

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Hilariously I've been thinking about getting a girl so I can at least have more open chances in the group, along with getting invited to things. Mostly for networking and a little social circle gaming. Sometimes you gotta play the game.
You get a girl and the first thing she will do is separate you from that group. Try it and come back and tell
Me I’m right in a month lol
 

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My married friends and their wives are baffled by why I'm still single. Even after explaining how women today expect way more than they're worth that I simply do not put up with it. Some of them think I'm exaggerating and one of the wives thinks there's something wrong with me. I have my flaws but I don't have a fatal one. She thinks I'm hiding something lol
There are plenty of men today who would have been off the market in previous generations who are having significant issues on the market.
 

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You get a girl and the first thing she will do is separate you from that group. Try it and come back and tell
Me I’m right in a month lol
It depends. Plenty of the guys in the circle have girls who love doing stuff with the other couples in the circle. But I like to think it's because these women love attention and perhaps the bf isn't doing it for them. I have been with stingy women and it's usually the ones who hate you f*cking around.
 

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My thoughts? We're steadfastly approaching a collapse of western society and if people don't see this is as an issue that concerns me. (we've already collapsed in my eyes)

This divide between men and women is growing and if we look at trends it will only continue this direction. More men will become redpill and view women in an entirely different light like we are already seeing. The majority I imagine will move further towards MGTOW ideology consciously or not. So many men have already 'given up' and I only see that getting worse with time unfortunately. I pity them

Enjoy the decline and get yours I say....
Embrace the brokenness of it all and take advantage of it. Know your worth and don't drop your standards for the delusional and entitled masses. Stay away from those that take on the victim mindset, they will only bring you down further as water finds its own level. It is what it is and it will probably only get worse. The pendulum will not swing backwards to a pre sexual revolution world.

Also, in a way I think a man who would rather stay home and whack it is a 'loser', but at the same time I understand why they don't even bother with dating. Most modern young women are not worth a relationship, the same can be said for a good chunk of men.
This is simply how the animal kingdom works. The leader of the tribe/pack/group gets access to all the top females and the other males get the table scraps.

Humans may be more intellectually advance but at the end of the day we are still animals.
 
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