Getting Older and Still Haven't Settled Down?

[jaymbrs]

Why did you feel the need to bring up the fact that I made a post about being sex addicted?

You realize that you planned on flying an escort out on vacation right? Whats better, being sex addicted or not getitng laid flying escorts out?
That post I made was really personal to me.. It came about a month after I lost a job for sleepign with multiple women and getting caught up.. wasnt cool..

Don't start bro.. seriously, I never been disrespectful to you at all on this forum.. and you literally just sidestepped into a convo between me and someone else.

If it werent for the motorcycle, you'd be a complete incel.. Dont fucc with me. We are not the same.

I started this thread so I’m not sidestepping. I didn’t agree with your logic and recalled you admitting what I said, so I’m pointing out why your responses are not really valid. It wasn’t intended to take a shot at you or make it personal.

 

[threeforfree]

I'm 51, got divorced last year. I look 10 years younger, I'm successful, no debt, have a boat, etc. Remote work and kids are grown so I can travel at will. I usually have 3 women I'm dating at the same time, lately they've been in their late 20s - mid 30s, that's more than enough for me. I live in a rural area so I have to rely on online dating, and even that can be challenging because of the distance (city gals aren't gonna pick someone 40 miles away if they have any other choices) but I plan to rectify that somewhat soon. I'm in no hurry to lock anything down... whoever it is will really have to convince me.

 

[RazorRambo24]

I started this thread so I’m not sidestepping. I didn’t agree with your logic and recalled you admitting what I said, so I’m pointing out why your responses are not really valid. It wasn’t intended to take a shot at you or make it personal.

My bad for snappin at you.. I did take it as personal and I'm glad you didn't mean it that way. Being sex addicted or feeling that way doesn't take away from other things I mentioned in that post.. such as wanting to settle down soon. People think just because you have a lustful nature and enjoy sexual novelty, sometimes to a fault, that you can't be a normal human being who likes spending time with beautiful women you have sex with..

Ofc, as most player sht goes, in the beginning its usually nothing but sex.. But you can't find a single person in the world who sees a woman for years and doesn't start having some kind of friendship with her as well, whether that is having deep and meaningful conversations or doing other things.

I think alot of guys think that women who sleep with you with no commitment have to automatically be hoes or women that lack moral integrity. Which can't be further from the truth. Some women understand the deeper emotions, fears and insecurities they have when it comes to a committed relationship in todays social climate, and thus prefer to leave things with no strings attached.. That way if they find out something , it doesn't hurt as much and they don't feel as "cheated". Now at the same time, guys shouldn't be so naive to not understand the signs and cues of when a woman probably does have other partners.. but if you're living a playa lifestyle, you have to deal with what comes with it..

 

[SW15]

Having kids has nothing to do with settling down.

When I think about men settling down, I see a wedding, a dog or two, a single family house, and babies a few years after the wedding.

 

[pipeman84]

The difference between a woman who u meet, and ONLY have sex and a woman who u meet, have sex with, hangout with from time to time, and have known for years, is that that 1 of those women has little respect for u, the other one has emotions towards you, respects you, and does nice things for you, aka gifts, errands, folds clothes, does your laundry, cooks for you

I'm sorry but you sound like you have never experienced what i'm talking about.. and i dont mean to offend you...

It seems like you think women are evil and are constantly worried about what else they got going on/who they're f-ing. Thats all insecurity.. When you're a confident man and you know the girl consistently is coming back to you, you dont even think for a second what else shes got going on.. especially when you're dealing with women who have friends, a career, family, who have a good head on their shoulders. Yes, one of my plates most def sleeps iwth other men, but do i care? no im not a pu55y.

My whole point is that whatever emotions and nice things the plates do are shallow and would disgust a man with a healthy dose of self esteem and self respect. Oh, she has emotions towards me, after she sucked c0ck and got fvcked by this other guy, she comes to my home to cook and do laundry. C'mon man!

The bolded part is the definition of shallow. And confident is not the right word in that context.

I understand your ideas 100%, but your ideas are those of a person who seems to lack confidence in themselves. WHen youre confident, you look at yourself like the only viable option the woman has.. You dont think anyone is better than you , thus why she keeps coming back to YOU.

You keep repeating confident, confidence but you're not using the words with their dictionary meaning and you're contradicting yourself here. How are you the only viable option for a woman when you actually know she fvcks other guys as well?