Pedrito0906
Banned
- Joined
- Nov 13, 2021
- Messages
- 828
- Reaction score
- 726
- Age
- 34
My parents think I'm their lifeline or their slave, manly cause I gained the reputation of being there no matter what, or being the emotional tampon and the guy always there to fix their problems, which I did it to myself seeking the wrong validation and being the great son.
They fvcked up their finances due to helping my brother, now they're old, retired, want to live near me, but they don't speak the language, so I'll have to take care of them, and since they didn't plan their retirement, they're in hole.
I told them to fvck off, that I didn't have kids, got the vasectomy and didn't have a wife so I can so with my life what I wanted, mom trying to emotionally manipulate me telling me like always, tells me I don't love them and that I changed, have turned into a guy who doesn't love his family (which is a good feedback from me previously being the great nice guy and son who was taken advantage of). There is saying that goes "you wanna be an a$$hole? Do 999th favor, but don't do the 1000th and you'll be considered an a$$hole.
For all the parents in there, we are not your fvcking slaves, plan your retirement accordingly, cause your sons and daughters have a life to live.
Has this happened to any of you?
They fvcked up their finances due to helping my brother, now they're old, retired, want to live near me, but they don't speak the language, so I'll have to take care of them, and since they didn't plan their retirement, they're in hole.
I told them to fvck off, that I didn't have kids, got the vasectomy and didn't have a wife so I can so with my life what I wanted, mom trying to emotionally manipulate me telling me like always, tells me I don't love them and that I changed, have turned into a guy who doesn't love his family (which is a good feedback from me previously being the great nice guy and son who was taken advantage of). There is saying that goes "you wanna be an a$$hole? Do 999th favor, but don't do the 1000th and you'll be considered an a$$hole.
For all the parents in there, we are not your fvcking slaves, plan your retirement accordingly, cause your sons and daughters have a life to live.
Has this happened to any of you?