"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RIP Alan Roger Currie - direct approach pioneer dies age 59

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RIP. What was the cause? 59 is mad young.
Nobody outside of his close family and friends knows for sure, but there's been a lot of speculation it was due to a heart attack. However given that he had a number of health issues, it could've been any of those or something related to or triggered by them.
 

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Nobody outside of his close family and friends knows for sure, but there's been a lot of speculation it was due to a heart attack. However given that he had a number of health issues, it could've been any of those or something related to or triggered by them.
Heart attack is certainly a probable cause for a diabetic 59 year old black male that admitted to years of horrific eating habits. Diabetes is a huge risk factor for cardiovascular disease. Diabetes and pre-diabetes / insulin resistance are usually found undiagnosed in heart attack victims that have otherwise normal cholesterol levels.
 

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Nobody outside of his close family and friends knows for sure, but there's been a lot of speculation it was due to a heart attack. However given that he had a number of health issues, it could've been any of those or something related to or triggered by them.
Imagine that. Just like Kevin Samuels.

A American Football star had a severe heart attack. The root beer float is pretty violent.

Rip ARC.

There's so many frauds. ARC is one of the few legit OGs in the space.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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