Holiday Rekindle?

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys, wanted to run this technique past you. Someone posted it in the old NextASF forums waaay back in the day, but anyways the idea is to simply text “Merry Christmas!” Or “Happy New Year!” Or insert any major holiday to an ex.

it doesn’t matter if you were in a steady relationship, a one night stand, she dumped you, didn’t matter.

then the idea was to gauge her response and go from there.

if she didn’t reply or simply sent the greeting back. You didn’t respond because she’s not interested, but if she says along the lines of “Merry Christmas! How have you been?” Or similar, then you know you have a shot.

thoughts on this technique? Is it beta/simp? I mean the technique calls for you to do it even with girls that dumped or rejected you.

Cheers guys

 

[Divorced w 3]

Feels like a can’t lose unless there’s a lot of mutual acquaintances that word could get to … otherwise why not try? I did the same with a girl the other day. Not this exactly but who cares? And better even, by not texting twice you do show some restraint.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Feels like a can’t lose unless there’s a lot of mutual acquaintances that word could get to … otherwise why not try? I did the same with a girl the other day. Not this exactly but who cares? And better even, by not texting twice you do show some restraint.

Yeah that’s my view as well. Plus girls are so socially aware they may hold themselves back unless they know there is an opening on your end

 

[Divorced w 3]

Yeah that’s my view as well. Plus girls are so socially aware they may hold themselves back unless they know there is an opening on your end

I’m pretty sure the girl I texted though is getting the pipe. I wanted to try something out and needed a sex partner so I didn’t gaf about it, but if it’s been some time there’s a good shot she’s probably getting pipe also.

 

[Stanley]

If you're looking to smash I don't see why not? Is it beta? Idk, it isn't masculine behavior to go backwards, but hey if you're looking to bust a nut **** it. Whenever a girl from the past hits me up on a holiday I just role my eyes and typically don't respond. Its an easy in to start breadcrumbing...

 

[startstrongtoday22]

I wouldn’t do it. Seems desperate.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I wouldn’t do it. Seems desperate.

I'm not sure why it matters what it "looks like" to women you already are not banging and probably never will again outside of starting something back up again with them.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I wouldn’t do it. Seems desperate.

Yeah I can see that angle. The guy who suggested it was quite successful tho. Mostly did club/dance floor game

 

[startstrongtoday22]

Yeah I can see that angle. The guy who suggested it was quite successful tho. Mostly did club/dance floor game

Honestly. If you have lost touch, the most that could have been is they will come out have a drink and that’s it. Women don’t all of sudden sleep with a guy. The attraction is gone. It’s happened to me with my exes. They won’t sleep with you until they respect you. I had to take out an ex twice and paid for everything ( which I didn’t care for the money) and we didn’t even kiss. She was being a ***** and all mad at me about our relationship. Then I went no contact and she began chasing and begged me to call her and I never bothered lol.

Unless you are desperate for female attention, and have nothing else to do then shoot them a message - which I still suggest you don’t do. You should be so busy with other **** And other chicks.

 

[startstrongtoday22]

I'm not sure why it matters what it "looks like" to women you already are not banging and probably never will again outside of starting something back up again with them.

It ****s with your ego and confidence. He is clearly chasing a high. He wants that message back.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I see nothing wrong with banging exes on a sex only basis. This strategy seems fine to me. Go for it!!

 

[SargeMaximus]

I see nothing wrong with banging exes on a sex only basis. This strategy seems fine to me. Go for it!!

Thanks I will. I’m not expecting anything but worse that can happen is I end up where I already am

 

[RickTheToad]

Hey guys, wanted to run this technique past you. Someone posted it in the old NextASF forums waaay back in the day, but anyways the idea is to simply text “Merry Christmas!” Or “Happy New Year!” Or insert any major holiday to an ex.

it doesn’t matter if you were in a steady relationship, a one night stand, she dumped you, didn’t matter.

then the idea was to gauge her response and go from there.

if she didn’t reply or simply sent the greeting back. You didn’t respond because she’s not interested, but if she says along the lines of “Merry Christmas! How have you been?” Or similar, then you know you have a shot.

thoughts on this technique? Is it beta/simp? I mean the technique calls for you to do it even with girls that dumped or rejected you.

Cheers guys

Not worth the headache. Spare yourself the waste of time and energy. Garbage taken out to the curb, should stay at the curb.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Not worth the headache. Spare yourself the waste of time and energy. Garbage taken out to the curb, should stay at the curb.

I think a little nuance is in order no? If she writes back and you get a call going maybe you can flip into phone sex

 

[startstrongtoday22]

I think a little nuance is in order no? If she writes back and you get a call going maybe you can flip into phone sex

Why though? Why not just get new numbers? I am against going backwards.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why though? Why not just get new numbers? I am against going backwards.

Not mutually exclusive. OP can do both.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not worth the headache. Spare yourself the waste of time and energy. Garbage taken out to the curb, should stay at the curb.

Sending a 2 second text is a waste of time and energy? How? I’m wasting more time engaging you at this point

Not mutually exclusive. OP can do both.

This.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why though? Why not just get new numbers? I am against going backwards.

Depends on the circumstances

 

[SargeMaximus]

Well I made my attempt. Her initial reply seemed promising but it’s been a few hours since I asked her when she’s free next and no reply. So I guess that’s that. Pic below

 

[EyeBRollin]

Well I made my attempt. Her initial reply seemed promising but it’s been a few hours since I asked her when she’s free next and no reply. So I guess that’s that. Pic below

Kind of vague. Just wait until she replies. If she never does, text her again on her birthday.