Bartender

[Divorced w 3]

I’ve been 3x in about 6 weeks at this bar. This 8 who my boy and I refer to as Utah girl gave me a no mistaken look today as I was sitting in a different section watching the game this morning. For perspective, I tip her well, I smile, and last time I was there I opened a 7 set in front of her who then came back around to make sure I found my to them when the group had moved. So today I opened a different set on a different area, not sure if she saw it but it was really more about just getting warmed up.

I had a couple of thoughts. First, I went ignore, I got out of there later and I didn’t make contact to her. Secondly, I was thinking of writing my name and number down which was mentioned in someone else’s thread. I may even go back over there later but if she’s still working there it would be a 12 hours shift which would be wild. I’m not really sure how to work this.

i also could wait a few week and invite her to Sundance

 

[dogsta]

Overthinking this?! If you got the look, that's your opening or green light, so to speak.

In your own time, approach and naturally build some report - you know, fun 'n' flirty.

What have you to lose?

The good thing about frequenting an establishment is you have space to play and enjoy some game. Bar girls are fun, especially if there's more than one. And if you make a tit of yourself, these girls are used to that. Don't sweat it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Overthinking this?! If you got the look, that's your opening or green light, so to speak.

In your own time, approach and naturally build some report - you know, fun 'n' flirty.

What have you to lose?

The good thing about frequenting an establishment is you have space to play and enjoy some game. Bar girls are fun, especially if there's more than one. And if you make a tit of yourself, these girls are used to that. Don't sweat it.

Well said, I may even call her out on it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She likely is trying to draw more tips from you. Best way to do this is making you think you have a chance

 

[Divorced w 3]

She likely is trying to draw more tips from you. Best way to do this is making you think you have a chance

Probably right. I’m going to call her out on it. It’s bad enough I get hit on all night there. I don’t appreciate her making me feel like a piece of meat.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Probably right. I’m going to call her out on it. It’s bad enough I get hit on all night there. I don’t appreciate her making me feel like a piece of meat.

If you do it in a joking manner it would be hilarious to see her reaction

 

[Divorced w 3]

If you do it in a joking manner it would be hilarious to see her reaction

Keep you posted