The 20 Best Cities for Young People Looking to Put Down Roots
Young people have a lot of options when it comes to settling down. Here are 20 great cities they may want to call home.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I was surprised about the Chicago and virginia ranking but the fact of the matter is we're talking about young people starting off in their lives not baby boomers are retirees so I can see how Chicago be ranked on that listEhh.. that list is poor IMO. Chicago at #2 yeah right.
Chicago being higher than NYC and Miami just kills the credibility to me. Chicago is a nice city aesthetically but has a lot of issues. I guess if you are a young person from the Midwest and really want ti stay there… but #2 best in the USA? LOLI was surprised about the Chicago and virginia ranking but the fact of the matter is we're talking about young people starting off in their lives not baby boomers are retirees so I can see how Chicago be ranked on that list
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Having stayed in both cities, including NYC for years, Chicago is by far the superior option to NYC when it comes to living. Just walk around and the streets are a lot cleaner, no more having to deal with rats running across every block you walk on. Chicago smells better and is a lot cleaner. It is like NYC without the constant misery and the daily grind that makes people moody whenever you hop on a rat and homeless drug addict infested subway.Chicago being higher than NYC and Miami just kills the credibility to me. Chicago is a nice city aesthetically but has a lot of issues. I guess if you are a young person from the Midwest and really want ti stay there… but #2 best in the USA? LOL
I’ve also spent time in both. Chicago being “cleaner” does not equate for being a better city for young people. No offense but your post is extremely biased.Having stayed in both cities, including NYC for years, Chicago is by far the superior option to NYC when it comes to living. Just walk around and the streets are a lot cleaner, no more having to deal with rats running across every block you walk on. Chicago smells better and is a lot cleaner. It is like NYC without the constant misery and the daily grind that makes people moody whenever you hop on a rat and homeless drug addict infested subway.
Cleaner is better for anyone, who in their right mind would want to walk through smells of radioactive waste that get stronger in the summer in Manhattan? As for the crime, it is very focused on the Southside and poorer parts of Chicago and let's not pretend that NYC is a safe haven anymore. Crimes are constantly on the rise in the city as thugs easily get out of prison and commit the same crimes on subways, this is not happening in the Bronx, it is happening in places like Union Square!I’ve also spent time in both. Chicago being “cleaner” does not equate for being a better city for young people. No offense but your post is extremely biased.
Compared to NYC, Chicago has significantly higher crime, more severe climate, weaker job market, less developed public transit system, smaller nightlife scene, and it’s less diverse (manifests itself in demographics and food). I personally like Chicago, however saying it is the second best city in the US for young people is just total horse shvt.
The crime and job market is not comparable. You can research the stats. Also, young people tend to care about nightlife, diversity, and to some extent climate. Few people outside of the Midwest pack up and move to Chicago. NYC gets transplants from all over, including Chicago. The winters are just that terrible in Chi-town.Cleaner is better for anyone, who in their right mind would want to walk through smells of radioactive waste that get stronger in the summer in Manhattan? As for the crime, it is very focused on the Southside and poorer parts of Chicago and let's not pretend that NYC is a safe haven anymore. Crimes are constantly on the rise in the city as thugs easily get out of prison and commit the same crimes on subways, this is not happening in the Bronx, it is happening in places like Union Square!
For a city its size, Chicago owns NYC but it just seems like NYC is better because it has so many people in it. This is not to even mention that real estate and rent is far more affordable in Chicago than it is in NYC.
Chicago beats NYC in quality of life every which way and if someone can find a job there (which I agree with you, is tough depending on industry), it is a far better option.
NYC's rise in crime is indeed comparable to that of any major city, when you have to fear being pushed right into a subway track and when it is one of the leading topics for the governor's race which has gotten Zeldin in a tie in the polls with a Democrat incumbent? Yeah it's an issue. As for nightlife, for a city its size Chicago has a stellar nightlife. Diversity? Plenty of it in Chicago as well and I prefer the real diversity of Chicago as opposed to the SILOED immigrant "stick to yer own kind" mindset that pervades in NYC.The crime and job market is not comparable. You can research the stats. Also, young people tend to care about nightlife, diversity, and to some extent climate. Few people outside of the Midwest pack up and move to Chicago. NYC gets transplants from all over, including Chicago. The winters are just that terrible in Chi-town.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Biased. Your post reeks of bias. The OP’s list isn’t that credible. Any list that has Chicago as #2- ahead of NYC, Miami, Southern California, Atlanta, Houston, and Washington DC is capping. Chicago is cool but you just don’t find young people from other regions of the US moving there at rates compared to the cities I just listed.NYC's rise in crime is indeed comparable to that of any major city, when you have to fear being pushed right into a subway track and when it is one of the leading topics for the governor's race which has gotten Zeldin in a tie in the polls with a Democrat incumbent? Yeah it's an issue. As for nightlife, for a city its size Chicago has a stellar nightlife. Diversity? Plenty of it in Chicago as well and I prefer the real diversity of Chicago as opposed to the SILOED immigrant "stick to yer own kind" mindset that pervades in NYC.
IMO, if people cannot afford Manhattan (which very few can), there is zero reason to move to NYC.
I lived in NYC for years, it's my favorite and least favorite city at the same time but I will address your other point since you hate it when I criticize the cityBiased. Your post reeks of bias. The OP’s list isn’t that credible. Any list that has Chicago as #2- ahead of NYC, Miami, Southern California, Atlanta, Houston, and Washington DC is capping. Chicago is cool but you just don’t find young people from other regions of the US moving there at rates compared to the cities I just listed.
Chicago is not a bad city at all. It just isn’t the #2 destination for young transplants over the cities I listed.Chicago is not in any way a bad place and its rent prices are quite fair compared to a lot of other cities out there.
Milwaukee WI isn't that great either. Madison WI is far superiorChicago is not a bad city at all. It just isn’t the #2 destination for young transplants over the cities I listed.
I work in NYC. It both amazes me and baffles me where some of these young kids are moving in from. Not my place to argue with what is reality.
I am going to one day go back to NYC no matter what happens so I want the city to do well. As much as I may sound like hating on the city, Manhattan made me. However, I know it is not doable for most young people. So many of my classmates who moved ended up moving out after a couple of years. The city has a big grind factor to it that most young people cannot handle.Chicago is not a bad city at all. It just isn’t the #2 destination for young transplants over the cities I listed.
I work in NYC. It both amazes me and baffles me where some of these young kids are moving in from. Not my place to argue with what is reality.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Networking is the name of the game. I moved to metro NYC almost 8 years ago. My annual income has tripled since. No telling where I would be had I stayed in my home town. Opportunity is what most young people are searching for. They don’t give a crap about which street is cleaner.The networking opportunities are insane and it has a lot to offer
I will always love NYC (well really only just Manhattan), it made me.
Similar experience except for the fact that now, so much has gone remote and online. If you are only going for a career in a given niche space like let's say tech, I will suggest Seattle and San Francisco (even Austin) over NYC anyday. IMO, the networking pays off in NYC if you are in big finance or big4 consulting but those fields are trending downwards.Networking is the name of the game. I moved to metro NYC almost 8 years ago. My annual income has tripled since. No telling where I would be had I stayed in my home town. Opportunity is what most young people are searching for. They don’t give a crap about which street is cleaner.
This list is about liveability and economic growth, not where all the sexy fun young people stuff is. Chicago is where you wanna go if you wanna live in a big city for small town prices.Biased. Your post reeks of bias. The OP’s list isn’t that credible. Any list that has Chicago as #2- ahead of NYC, Miami, Southern California, Atlanta, Houston, and Washington DC is capping. Chicago is cool but you just don’t find young people from other regions of the US moving there at rates compared to the cities I just listed.
So true and it always manages to reinvent itself unlike detroitThe crime and job market is not comparable. You can research the stats. Also, young people tend to care about nightlife, diversity, and to some extent climate. Few people outside of the Midwest pack up and move to Chicago. NYC gets transplants from all over, including Chicago. The winters are just that terrible in Chi-town.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.