what is my smv?

[Bigpapa]

It's hard for me to stay away from asian cuisine. I love it so much so lol.

then you have to hit the gym more

just do not get too bulky . Bulky guys are not sexy

try to be a fit version of brad Pitt in fight club

 

[forcerecon01]

then you have to hit the gym more

just do not get too bulky . Bulky guys are not sexy

try to be a fit version of brad Pitt in fight club

Thinking the same thing lol. Im gonna do cardio for sure to drop the 200lbs to 160lb

 

[member160292]

It's hard for me to stay away from asian cuisine. I love it so much so lol.

Substitute the rice and noodles for salad and veggies. Don't eat out as often because they put a crap ton of unhealthy and fattening ingredients. The mainstream dishes are easy to make at home, soy sauce, ginger, garlic, lemongrass, chili's have no sugar - you can substitute some artificial sugar if you need to.

 

[forcerecon01]

Substitute the rice and noodles for salad and veggies. Don't eat out as often because they put a crap ton of unhealthy and fattening ingredients. The mainstream dishes are easy to make at home, soy sauce, ginger, garlic, lemongrass, chili's have no sugar - you can substitute some artificial sugar if you need to.

MSG is a big problem. Im in love with sushi and pho.

 

[lost_blackbird]

In the UK, the main thing is to have paid for your house completely. Being mortgage free
makes a huge difference. If you're renting anything half decent here, you're burning big money
up every month paying someone else's mortgage for them. I made a nice living renting houses
to people for years. It all went south when I got divorced but still I walked away with a couple of
mortgage free houses, sold one and live in the other. The one I live in has appreciated significantly
since I bought it 10 years ago, it's now worth double what I paid back then. When you just have your
basic bills/utilities to pay even a modest salary goes a long way.

 

[forcerecon01]

In the UK, the main thing is to have paid for your house completely. Being mortgage free
makes a huge difference. If you're renting anything half decent here, you're burning big money
up every month paying someone else's mortgage for them. I made a nice living renting houses
to people for years. It all went south when I got divorced but still I walked away with a couple of
mortgage free houses, sold one and live in the other. The one I live in has appreciated significantly
since I bought it 10 years ago, it's now worth double what I paid back then. When you just have your
basic bills/utilities to pay even a modest salary goes a long way.

In all honesty 50 grand is enough for me.

 

[member160292]

MSG is a big problem. Im in love with sushi and pho.

Pho, no noodles, extra steamed bean sprouts is what I get.
Sashimi with a side of wakame is what I order. Ask for daikon and nori so you can wrap your own. Also, imitation crab is quite unhealthy and full of carbs

 

[Foe]

As you say, your life just isn't THAT much different in lifestyle whether you're on 40k or 100k.

I can attest to this, over the last 10 years Ive moved between 80 to 180 and my lifestyle hasn't changed that much. That being said I do give less of a sh!t about money, dont worry about bills, grab a 100$ uber to go on a date, pay for the meal etc. The big difference between say 150-180 is that on the higher wage you start to slowly accumulate wealth. Savings are possible, which means over seas trips are possible.

The big thing is now I have some capital in my house and a good wage I can seriously think about a investment property, which Ill probably do over the next year after I go on a trip to Europe with a stop over in Turkey to get my hairline restored.

I remember working with this guy, bit of a bum in a mediocre job, nice guy but not someone you would give a high SMV. 5 years later he created a business and is a millionaire and came to a party that a mate of mine hosted. I could not believe the difference, completely different guy, white teeth, great hair, nice clothes and he had a aura that screamed success. Money can definitely increase SMV.

 

[forcerecon01]

I can attest to this, over the last 10 years Ive moved between 80 to 180 and my lifestyle hasn't changed that much. That being said I do give less of a sh!t about money, dont worry about bills, grab a 100$ uber to go on a date, pay for the meal etc. The big difference between say 150-180 is that on the higher wage you start to slowly accumulate wealth. Savings are possible, which means over seas trips are possible.

The big thing is now I have some capital in my house and a good wage I can seriously think about a investment property, which Ill probably do over the next year after I go on a trip to Europe with a stop over in Turkey to get my hairline restored.

I remember working with this guy, bit of a bum in a mediocre job, nice guy but not someone you would give a high SMV. 5 years later he created a business and is a millionaire and came to a party that a mate of mine hosted. I could not believe the difference, completely different guy, white teeth, great hair, nice clothes and he had a aura that screamed success. Money can definitely increase SMV.

Being a millionaire sure would raise your smv. 50 grand is enough for me and that is my military pension.

 

[bat soup]

Hi Don Juans. I'm curious to know how do you guys know what your smv is compared to a womans? I'm asian 5ft8 and 200lbs. What women would be in my league for smv?

Hmmm. I think you qualify for butch tatoooed women weighing in at over 500 pounds.

 

[forcerecon01]

Hmmm. I think you qualify for butch tatoooed women weighing in at over 500 pounds.

thats all? lol

 

[Bigpapa]

@Foe I doubt that there is a significant difference between you and your friend . You being at 180k and him being a millionaire

dunno how it is in America , but in Europe style is quite cheap . If you go at Zara with 200-300 euros you you dress from tip to toes and look quite good too

whitening your teeth is like 200-300 euros at the dentist

it is mainly how you carry yourself . One thing is to be full of doubts and living paycheck to paycheck and a totally different thing to not really be worried when it comes to money

actually my favorite dressing style is white t-shirt , dark jeans and a pair of Chelsea boots

this is an old time classic manly style

 

[bat soup]

thats all? lol

Well, if you drive a Ferrari and wear giraffe shoes you might be able to upgrade to a 4.

 

[forcerecon01]

Well, if you drive a Ferrari and wear giraffe shoes you might be able to upgrade to a 4.

gee thanks for the motivation lol

 

[Bigpapa]

this is amazing style for the big cities

 

[forcerecon01]

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this is amazing style for the big cities

cool!

 

[corrector]

Saw your pics on here. Honestly, it looks like you have a good frame and facial aesthetics and don't look too asian either or have an incel look. What is the stickling point then? You are getting ghosted after the first date? Where is the break-down where you'd ask about SMV?

 

[forcerecon01]

Saw your pics on here. Honestly, it looks like you have a good frame and facial aesthetics and don't look too asian either or have an incel look. What is the stickling point then? You are getting ghosted after the first date? Where is the break-down where you'd ask about SMV?

Thanks brother.Yes I don't look too Asian but now the problem is people mistake me for being Hispanic.Nothing against Mexican culture but I'm Asian and I should be accepted for that. Anyway I don't have a problem with girls really much but I get a few flakes now and again. I wanted to know smv because I need to dress better and do fitness as I m developing a gut.

 

[zekko]

Hi Don Juans. I'm curious to know how do you guys know what your smv is compared to a womans?

This was a question that flummoxed me when I was younger and didn't have much experience. Because I was wanting to know where I stood on the competitive field. I've come to the conclusion that if you look at the women that you get, and put a number on them, that must be about what your SMV is. You are what you get, in other words. That's one reason guys get so hung up on certain hot women - I think they feel if they can get a hot woman, that value will reflect on themselves.

I'm not sure how else you could measure it. Sure beats taking the SMV quiz on Chateau Heartiste.

 

[forcerecon01]

This was a question that flummoxed me when I was younger and didn't have much experience. Because I was wanting to know where I stood on the competitive field. I've come to the conclusion that if you look at the women that you get, and put a number on them, that must be about what your SMV is. You are what you get, in other words. That's one reason guys get so hung up on certain hot women - I think they feel if they can get a hot woman, that value will reflect on themselves.

I'm not sure how else you could measure it. Sure beats taking the SMV quiz on Chateau Heartiste.

Thanks for the input.