Whydomyeyeshurt
Don Juan
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Do you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i did, but it’s completely unnecessaryDo you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
Total overkill in your case. You could have juat used a selfie and a free profile and got similar results.i did, but it’s completely unnecessary
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yep. Tinder got worse when Match LLC bought it. Without the premium services.OLD dating is useless without a premium subscription, unless you're a celebrity, male model, etc.
I hate giving the sites business, so I typically just pay for a month, mass swipe, then engage with who I've matched with when the subscription expires.
Paying only gives you a fighting chance. I agree that a lot of times paying doesn't work. Most men have a match percentage below 1% on their right swipes. You need to pay to get the unlimited swipes.Take it from me, even paying doesn’t work. I have professional photos and look decent, with a good job. I boost weekly and pay for bumble and hinge. I get maybe 1-3 matches a month at this point. I’m in a city with 7 million. OLD is not designed for you to meet people, rather it’s a money extraction project. From your pocket.
Even though approaching strangers randomly is similar to cold calling for business (a discredited sales method), there is an advantage is being face-to-face. While I don't recommend stranger approaching as the overall best option in the short to medium term for finding a girlfriend, it does have more merit than app swiping.Instead I work to make 20 cold approaches a week. Keeps me sharp and allows me to keep some leads Going.Cold approach is the only way. Trust me. That’s 80 approaches a month, statistically, 1-3 of them will really really like you. Assuming you have decent game. Which I do. At that point, the balls in your court to screen for quality.
Men would be foolish to upgrade. Swipe apps do not filter for activity. Allowing unlimited swipes just lets you swipe through all the localized inactive profiles.Most men need to buy the unlimited swipe package from one of the big swipe apps to have a fighting chance. On 100 swipes a day, it's not likely you'll get a lot of matches. I know my match percantage on my right swipes has historically been under 1%.
This is going to sound harsh, but your pictures aren't good enough or you're not as attractive as you think you are. I had nearly 2k matches on Hinge prior to being banned and had sex with 10+ girls a year off it. Also had one relationship.Take it from me, even paying doesn’t work. I have professional photos and look decent, with a good job. I boost weekly and pay for bumble and hinge. I get maybe 1-3 matches a month at this point. I’m in a city with 7 million. OLD is not designed for you to meet people, rather it’s a money extraction project. From your pocket.
Instead I work to make 20 cold approaches a week. Keeps me sharp and allows me to keep some leads Going.Cold approach is the only way. Trust me. That’s 80 approaches a month, statistically, 1-3 of them will really really like you. Assuming you have decent game. Which I do. At that point, the balls in your court to screen for quality.
That could be the case. Who knows. But trust me I’m a ruthless self critic and have tried everything OLD. It’s designed to get your moneyThis is going to sound harsh, but your pictures aren't good enough or you're not as attractive as you think you are. I had nearly 2k matches on Hinge prior to being banned and had sex with 10+ girls a year off it. Also had one relationship.