She says: You think i am fat?

[Bitcoindna]

When some of your main rotation girls or main girl ask you: babe you think i am fat?

she could loose a couple of pounds to be more atractive

what do you say?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Main girl this is tough. You cannot directly say “yes” because it is a put down / insult. She will resent you for it.

The approach I took was softer. Deflect and say what you do like - “I do like skinny girls” or “I do like fit girls.” Then have her catch you looking at other girls that fit the description. If her interest level is high (which it should be if she is a main), her competition anxiety will kick in. “He will leave me for a skinny / fit girl.”

If she flat out doesn’t care about your preferences just dump her. It cannot be salvaged. She likes being fat more than she likes you.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Main girl this is tough. You cannot directly say “yes” because it is a put down / insult. She will resent you for it.

The approach I took was softer. Deflect and say what you do like - “I do like skinny girls” or “I do like fit girls.” Then have her catch you looking at other girls that fit the description. If her interest level is high (which it should be if she is a main), her competition anxiety will kick in. “He will leave me for a skinny / fit girl.”

If she flat out doesn’t care about your preferences just dump her. It cannot be salvaged. She likes being fat more than she likes you.

I've been hinting at my girl to pick up a gym membership and she is always saying she will when she can afford it. Yet, she can afford to go on these dumb spontaneous weekend trips. Would you just dump lol?

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

When some of your main rotation girls or main girl ask you: babe you think i am fat?

she could loose a couple of pounds to be more atractive

what do you say?

Just say “I like that phat azz”

-Augustus-

 

[9-3enthusiast]

"Do these jeans make my azz look big?"

"No, it's because of all that chocolate you eat..... "

 

[Murk]

I made a joke yesterday, chillin at home on the laptop working, while my girl watches TV, glass of white in hand. I make a joke that my girl weighs the same as me, she had asked how much I weigh, my bathroom scales ran out of battery. I go back to the laptop working 3 minutes later I look up she's crying.

Me: What's wrong
Her: You said I weigh the same as you *sob* *sob*

I ignore her, I'm actually angry that I'm seeing tears right now and being psychologically tested. I continue to ignore her for a good 5 minutes. She clearly doesn't weigh as much as me a fully grown man, 6'2, muscles. I then apologise but go back to work.

She knows she doesn't weigh the same as me, but she's 5'10, a big girl. I then lifted her up, squatted her 3 times, then carried her to the kitchen (trying to not show her she's actually fvcking heavy) spun her around, and brought her back to my living room.

She immediately perked up, smile on face, talking about other things, like nothing ever happened.

I asked her, "you changed completely when I picked you up"

She replies that she just wants to feel small and petite, and how surprised she was at what I'd done.

I felt offended, I'm a strong man, she thought I was too weak to pick her up, no woman is too big for me to pick up.

I know this is a separate situation and my girl being tall wants to feel slender, small and womanly. But women really care about weight, same as men with height, strength, hair (or lack thereof) etc.

It's something I will never understand, and when a woman tries to make me feel guilty about anything, I shut down. I shut down emotionally in that moment, I'll never be coerced or led in my emotions, thoughts or feelings and when I feel that happening, I'm angry and on the attack.

TLDR; women are sensitive with many things, especially weight, never let them dictate your mood or atmosphere. I am quicker to kick a girl out for "an off feeling" I have than put up with BS for the sake of it.

My tolerance is 0 for manipulation.

I would class being overly sensitive to the point you have expectations of comfort from a partner, as manipulation. My standards are too high for that ****.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I've been hinting at my girl to pick up a gym membership and she is always saying she will when she can afford it. Yet, she can afford to go on these dumb spontaneous weekend trips. Would you just dump lol?

How overweight is she?

Does she have any fitness or athletic history?

Don’t dump yet. Start looking at other fit girls blatantly.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

How overweight is she?

Does she have any fitness or athletic history?

Don’t dump yet. Start looking at other fit girls blatantly.

Her history is mixed, but she's latina and her habits are starting to concern me. All I need to say lol.

 

[Murk]

Her history is mixed, but she's latina and her habits are starting to concern me. All I need to say lol.

You can lightly coerce but if a girl doesn't have the get up and go to gym, eat healthy, not be a c*nt then you need to let her go brotherman.

I've NEVER and will NEVER be with a fat/unhealthy/unhygienic/lazy woman. Pick any 1 out of those 4 things and it's an instant no I don't care what she looks like.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No you're just big boned.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Her history is mixed, but she's latina and her habits are starting to concern me. All I need to say lol.

She’s not a long term then. Future whale. She has to have some prior drive or athleticism.

 

[RickTheToad]

When some of your main rotation girls or main girl ask you: babe you think i am fat?

she could loose a couple of pounds to be more atractive

what do you say?

No one is perfect. We can always improve ourselves. That's what I'd say. I also have no issues in saying that a female is overweight and what is she going to do about it for her.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Just redirect, always the best route…

 

[Jor-El]

Say yes,you`re a ****,so no, you`re a liar....cant win with this one!

 

[espanish]

man, what's with all the nonsense in the replies? quit trying to be "gamey" or witty.
be a gentleman. the answer to that question is always no, you are not fat.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

man, what's with all the nonsense in the replies? quit trying to be "gamey" or witty.
be a gentleman. the answer to that question is always no, you are not fat.

women can’t handle the truth

 

[2Rocky]

"I want you to look in the mirror and LOVE what you see. That is sexy to me. There is something so sexy about a woman who knows her body and is a master of it that just unleashes a primal energy in me. Even if she isn't where SHE wants to be the fact she is working to get there, makes me love her all that much more."

 

[member160292]

Sometimes we go down the GAME rabbit hole and forget that we are talking to another human being

 

[The Duke]

One time my ex wife gained a few pounds and wanted me to tell her that was ok.....I said if I wanted a fat girl I would have gotten one to start with.

They show no mercy when guys get lazy, don't lead the relationship, lose their job, cry, etc. I'm not giving her a free pass on getting fat. A woman's looks are important.

It's not like modern day woman can even cook or clean, and you guys are letting them off the hook for getting fat? They aren't trying to improve, they are getting lazy and not doing their part. Should they cut their hair short too? Lol.

 

[bat soup]

When some of your main rotation girls or main girl ask you: babe you think i am fat?

she could loose a couple of pounds to be more atractive

what do you say?

Tell her "I'm not saying your fat, but.. when you go for a swim you leave a ring around the lake."