“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Was never that much into night gaming , and did not do anything in this regards since pre pandemic , but I remembered now some things that made me not to be that much into it

1. the quality of girls is quite low on average ( should be something that should make people wonder on the “ purity “ of average and bellow average girls )

2. You need to have solid logistics in place , and maybe the most important one is to know where to go . Especially if you want some quality . If you do not know the cool places , then the strategy should be to wonder in bars area as you will have more chances of seeing quality girls wondering on the street

3. if you do not make the approach on the spot , very likely you will not see the girl . She will just disappear

4. most men have very bad fundamentals ( and I am not talking about their genetics ) . They just look like low end 1d1ots . Button of the barrel

5. Night game is easier than day game if you do not care about quality

6. Good looking girls ( including tourists ) know exactly where to go . So it must be some sort of knowledge that is shared among the higher tier people

7. Always start your night at a bar and making eye contact with people that pass by you . This will make you to feel more social when you will go later for the kill

8. if by 1-2 am you do not have any solid leads , just leave . Makes no sense to waste your energy . Tomorrow is another day

9. do mot drink too much . 1-2 glasses is ok , more than that is not good for your game

10. places are usually packed with men

11. You have a very limited time frame in which you can do approaches , make them count . Screening is very importsnt
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. the quality of girls is quite low on average ( should be something that should make people wonder on the “ purity “ of average and bellow average girls )
The natural explanation for this is that the better quality women are taken and probably home cuddling with their boyfriend. They're not out on the "market". Some are, but the vast majority aren't.

2. You need to have solid logistics in place , and maybe the most important one is to know where to go . Especially if you want some quality . If you do not know the cool places , then the strategy should be to wonder in bars area as you will have more chances of seeing quality girls wondering on the street
I don't know about this one, I've always winged it and if there was any hope to begin with it worked out.

3. if you do not make the approach on the spot , very likely you will not see the girl . She will just disappear
True, the night is a blur and attention span is very short.

4. most men have very bad fundamentals ( and I am not talking about their genetics ) . They just look like low end 1d1ots . Button of the barrel
At least that gives you an advantage. I also find it laughable how unskilled the average competition is.

5. Night game is easier than day game if you do not care about quality
Yup, it's a different demographic. All types of women walk around during daytime, only some types of women enjoy the nightlife. Again single women tend to go out at night more and the older they are, the more likely they are to be low quality (still on the market).

6. Good looking girls ( including tourists ) know exactly where to go . So it must be some sort of knowledge that is shared among the higher tier people
Like attracts like for various reasons. I can also walk into a place, take a glance at the people there and determine what type of place it is. This isn't hard.

7. Always start your night at a bar and making eye contact with people that pass by you . This will make you to feel more social when you will go later for the kill
This is spot on. It's a form of slow escalation. The time delay really helps the dispel the idea that you're desperate.

8. if by 1-2 am you do not have any solid leads , just leave . Makes no sense to waste your energy . Tomorrow is another day
Sleep in peace.

9. do mot drink too much . 1-2 glasses is ok , more than that is not good for your game
Depends heavily upon your state of mind and personality overall. Personally I become extremely energetic, jovial and remain in control when intoxicated, but if that's not you, definitely limit the alcohol.

10. places are usually packed with men
Yup, that's how it is.

11. You have a very limited time frame in which you can do approaches , make them count . Screening is very importsnt
Better learn how to read between the lines, the most important part of communication is NOT the spoken part.
 

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The natural explanation for this is that the better quality women are taken and probably home cuddling with their boyfriend. They're not out on the "market". Some are, but the vast majority aren't.
Yep , it is just very important where you go . So logistics play a very important role during night

if you go to the wrong places then it is game over

I think that the golden hour for gaming Is like 6:00 pm - 12 am . Maybe add another 1-2h if you go to a club or something
 

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I'm not sure where you are going out but any time I go out I see plenty of hot women. Sometimes with boyfriends, but many times in groups of women.
 

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I'm not sure where you are going out but any time I go out I see plenty of hot women. Sometimes with boyfriends, but many times in groups of women.
now I am in Malaga , south of Spain . Quite a touristic place

I think that we just have different standards on what we define as attractive

there are plenty of women , yes

they are very opened to be seduced , yes

A good number by the way they look at me look like DTF , yes

but unless I have a couple of drinks ( like 5-6 glasses + ) I do not find them attractive

and based on my experience over the years , the quality of girls during the day is way better than the quality of girls during the night

during the day I find enough good looking girls to do approaches , but during the night there was a day when I did not do any . Usually I do like maximum 2-3 per night , in a good night
 
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I ended up being friends with some above average looking women I hooked up with and typically, as soon as they touch down, there are promoters on Instagram hitting them up left and right. For example, here in Miami the two big nightclubs are LIV and Story. If you want to get in as a guy, going to cost you a $100+ cover charge (tables are 5k each). However, when women touch down and tag themselves in a Miami spot, promoters find them on IG and message them spots. This is why it is so easy for these women to find the spots they need to find and they get in VIP for practically free at some places.

Night game will easily help you relate to the struggles of your average Incel crying about how easy women have it. If you are a hot girl in any major city, the doors roll open for you for night game. I've worked in nightlife before too and I have got to tell you, majority of the people that have jobs in it are screw ups, people with a felony/a record that cannot find jobs elsewhere, and often quite sadistic as well.

While in cities like Chicago, NYC, and Atlanta you can do night game and have success, it is a complete waste of time in a city like Miami. You are dealing with booming loud nightclubs made to price gouge you so you cannot hear and women that are heavily guarded. Outside of spam approaching and a ton of dumb luck, night game is largely a waste of time.

Day game is harder in the sense that you have to learn game and how to socially calibrate but it is far more rewarding.
 

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While in cities like Chicago, NYC, and Atlanta you can do night game and have success, it is a complete waste of time in a city like Miami. You are dealing with booming loud nightclubs made to price gouge you so you cannot hear and women that are heavily guarded. Outside of spam approaching and a ton of dumb luck, night game is largely a waste of time.
It is still doable if you know how to play your cards

yeah , getting in might be expensive as hell but you can still pick them up around

everyone goes out for some air , or to eat something

there are ways around it , if you know how things roll

but … overall I would say that night game is great if you want to get laid and you are not that picky . Life for example if you know where people go before the club or after it

if you want quality , it is a better bet to go for day game . At least this is my experience

People in general say that night game is more difficult that day game . It is and it is not . Depends a lot on what you are looking for
 
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