Why Texting games/Rules are complete BS

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

So, I have this girl I've been talking to, and she hasn't really been responsive with texting back. I know she has a busy job and extracurricular activities, so I just saw it at that. Last night, buzzing off whiskey, I'm like I'm not going to drop a girl unless she has told me "No" hanging out, not because she hasn't responded to some stupid text message. I give her the WYD and I end up having sex with her later in the night.

NOW, I'm not telling you to continue chasing some girl that hasn't responded back to you and is flaking on dates. All I am saying is that some women are just crappy at texting back and you should always go off of physical contact as top priority. Also, I don't give a damn about Brad Pitt or Chad either.

 

[devilkingx2]

There's a balanced middle ground that most men haven't found.

Men who aren't masters of getting girls usually waste time on girls with no interest, but sometimes their issue is giving up too easily and not putting the work in.

The usual texting rules are made for guys who don't know how to cut their losses.

 

[ezio6]

So, I have this girl I've been talking to, and she hasn't really been responsive with texting back. I know she has a busy job and extracurricular activities, so I just saw it at that. Last night, buzzing off whiskey, I'm like I'm not going to drop a girl unless she has told me "No" hanging out, not because she hasn't responded to some stupid text message. I give her the WYD and I end up having sex with her later in the night.

NOW, I'm not telling you to continue chasing some girl that hasn't responded back to you and is flaking on dates. All I am saying is that some women are just crappy at texting back and you should always go off of physical contact as top priority. Also, I don't give a damn about Brad Pitt or Chad either.

Brb im a chad in face
Brb you guys who thinka diffeently than me are losers
Brb my heigt statts with 6”
****outta here aryan punk
Probbaly the girl is ugly ethnic who jbw

 

[RBK]

Sometimes its right place, right time. Usually this doesn’t work in my travels.

 

[member160292]

There's a balanced middle ground that most men haven't found.

Men who aren't masters of getting girls usually waste time on girls with no interest, but sometimes their issue is giving up too easily and not putting the work in.

The usual texting rules are made for guys who don't know how to cut their losses.

I find myself throwing the baby out with the bathwater more often than not, even when I had very limited options/prospects. If I get left on read when I ask a question, that's time for me to walk away. I'm sure I'm missing some opportunities, but even if you follow up and get a response - You'll still be fighting an uphill battle. I wouldn't want to pursue that if there was low interest to begin with.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So, I have this girl I've been talking to, and she hasn't really been responsive with texting back. I know she has a busy job and extracurricular activities, so I just saw it at that. Last night, buzzing off whiskey, I'm like I'm not going to drop a girl unless she has told me "No" hanging out, not because she hasn't responded to some stupid text message. I give her the WYD and I end up having sex with her later in the night.

NOW, I'm not telling you to continue chasing some girl that hasn't responded back to you and is flaking on dates. All I am saying is that some women are just crappy at texting back and you should always go off of physical contact as top priority. Also, I don't give a damn about Brad Pitt or Chad either.

Don't ever text a woman a low value or no value message like WYD. That is how you get grouped in with the other 95% of lame texting dudes.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Don't ever text a woman a low value or no value message like WYD. That is how you get grouped in with the other 95% of lame texting dudes.

lame dudes are guys below 6ft and average to women lol. You can shoot her on fifth avenue, and she would still chase you.

 

[RBK]

I find myself throwing the baby out with the bathwater more often than not, even when I had very limited options/prospects. If I get left on read when I ask a question, that's time for me to walk away. I'm sure I'm missing some opportunities, but even if you follow up and get a response - You'll still be fighting an uphill battle. I wouldn't want to pursue that if there was low interest to begin with.

I agree with this I’m not gonna continue texting someone if they’re not responding.

 

[devilkingx2]

I find myself throwing the baby out with the bathwater more often than not, even when I had very limited options/prospects. If I get left on read when I ask a question, that's time for me to walk away. I'm sure I'm missing some opportunities, but even if you follow up and get a response - You'll still be fighting an uphill battle. I wouldn't want to pursue that if there was low interest to begin with.

I mostly agree with this, but it's fine if she only does it once or once in a while.

If it's hard to have a conversation with her or make plans because she only responds when she feels like it, then that's a waste of time.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I agree with this I’m not gonna continue texting someone if they’re not responding.

or why not just accept her as someone that doesn't see you as her first option and use her for sex instead of trying to raise her interest lol.

 

[RangerMIke]

Rules.... there are no rules. You do what you want. Don't get me wrong, I think men that have had a hard time with women need guidelines so that they can develop good habits. But the people who really succeed in life skirt the rules consistently.

The only 'rule' you need is (1) Always put yourself first, never twist yourself into a knot over a woman. (2) Don't forget rule 1 even if the chick is super hot.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

lame dudes are guys below 6ft and average to women lol. You can shoot her on fifth avenue, and she would still chase you.

Nah, lame dudes are dudes who act lame

 

[Hal9000]

Really the only rule when it comes to texting is not to make yourself too available. Makes you look desperate or clingy. There may be others that are situationally useful but not constantly texting and acting like you have no life whatsoever is the big no no.

 

[lgbs2004]

The only 'rule' you need is (1) Always put yourself first, never twist yourself into a knot over a woman. (2) Don't forget rule 1 even if the chick is super hot.

3) Who cares what she thinks.