Girl likes me but I’m feeling her best friend. What to do

[Poody11]

Chick A: Girl who's interested

Chick B: Her BFF

So chick A and I supposed to be linking up for a "date" soon, but I'm tryna get at chick B. Initially, I told chick A that this is a casual link up, but she insists it's a "date." Then, I told chick A I wanted chick B to come w/ us (for obvious reasons). Chick A agreed, but tried to make me wait b/c she had a "busy schedule". I said cool and DM'd chick B on IG to see what's up. Chick B definitely told chick A b/c literally a day later, chick A texted me pushing for us to go out.

Currently, both are in Mexico to celebrate chick B's birthday. Chick A sent me pics of them both together and afterwards, both FT'd me setting up the logistics when they come back. I'm supposed to be "treating them both" (don't worry, I'm not and it'll be cheap).

I'm wondering how to go along w/ this when we do link up? Chick B claims she's only coming to "seal her approval", but after me DMing her and telling chick A to invite her, she can't be that stupid... Lowkey, I think chick A knows I like chick B. Is there anyway I could successfully pull this off?

Any advice and/or criticism is appreciated.

 

[devilkingx2]

99% chance you'll piss off Girl A and also not get Girl B. Just go for Girl A.

The 1% would be crazy stuff like getting a threesome, or they're both into you so you date them both, or Girl A is happy to be friends with you so you can date her hotter friend.

If Girl B wanted to go out with you, she would be making plans with you. There's a good chance she's only going to set you up with Girl A.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This sounds like girl B is not interested and is going to try and push girl A on you

 

[EyeBRollin]

You either get the one that’s interested in you or you will have neither. Best case scenario is after you fvck girl A real good a few times and break her heart, girl B will be more intrigued. Women are deranged like that.

Men, your interest level is irrelevant. It’s about her interest level.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I’m in this situation with one in my bottom rotation.

Her bestie is super hot.

When I hang out with them, the bestie sometimes sits next to me rubbing her chest on my arm.

Sometimes when I’m alone with her, she gets so close that it seems like she’d drop to her knees any moment.

But I know from experience, when two girls are THAT close, no way they’d mess their friendship up for just a guy. They have too much invested. Even if one does, they’ll both drop you cuz guilt.

My advice reinforces @devilkingx2 smash A. No need to start drama. Be a good human and let them be. You can keep in touch, and if someday down the line A is okay with B making plans w you, go for it

 

[Poody11]

OP is trying to go through (we assume) morbidly obese Girl A, to get to her thinner (we assume) friend Girl B.

Girl B doesn’t like OP. Girl A is ugly. OP is wasting his time. Girl B already views him as a charity case for her fat friend.

Damn, you know me so well.

Oh well, Ima just take the L w/ this one.

Thanks everyone.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Do a good job with A then she’ll brag to B, then do B. Oh shyte just read read A is a chub Nvm…

 

[bat soup]

Chick A: Girl who's interested

Chick B: Her BFF

So chick A and I supposed to be linking up for a "date" soon, but I'm tryna get at chick B. Initially, I told chick A that this is a casual link up, but she insists it's a "date." Then, I told chick A I wanted chick B to come w/ us (for obvious reasons). Chick A agreed, but tried to make me wait b/c she had a "busy schedule". I said cool and DM'd chick B on IG to see what's up. Chick B definitely told chick A b/c literally a day later, chick A texted me pushing for us to go out.

Currently, both are in Mexico to celebrate chick B's birthday. Chick A sent me pics of them both together and afterwards, both FT'd me setting up the logistics when they come back. I'm supposed to be "treating them both" (don't worry, I'm not and it'll be cheap).

I'm wondering how to go along w/ this when we do link up? Chick B claims she's only coming to "seal her approval", but after me DMing her and telling chick A to invite her, she can't be that stupid... Lowkey, I think chick A knows I like chick B. Is there anyway I could successfully pull this off?

Any advice and/or criticism is appreciated.

Most likely this strategy will blow your chances with chick A an they'll both just use you for free food.

 

[Poody11]

Most likely this strategy will blow your chances with chick A an they'll both just use you for free food.

I’m cool w/ that. We’re only going for ice cream anyway.

 

[Murk]

My limited experience of infiltrating friendship groups like this is this: girl you want is bound by girl code. If they are stand up girls, not degenerates, she won't snake her friend and get with you.

You need to be a man and say look Chick B, It's you I want, not Chick A.

Don't go on the date, it's Chick B or nothing, if you're hungry for sex with limited options, go Chick A, otherwise, go for what you want and be bold.

It's a learning experience, test the boundaries. Maybe Chick B will get with you, great, likely no, because Chick A claimed you first, only one way to find out.

 

[SW15]

Men, your interest level is irrelevant. It’s about her interest level.

I agree with this.

@Poody11 has a chance with Girl A but essentially zero with Girl B. If Girl A is not physically attractive, it’s best to just walk away from tbd situation entirely.