"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you think you've got it rough ...

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win

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Given his condition, I find it very unlikely that his first goal is to find a girlfriend...also for technical reasons.
 

HaleyBaron

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Given his condition, I find it very unlikely that his first goal is to find a girlfriend...also for technical reasons.
Actually, he had a girlfriend before it happened. Still a ****ty situation to be in. His life is unfortunately over.
 

FlexpertHamilton

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Why do we bother saving people after **** like this? Just euthanize him, christ.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Pierce Manhammer

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He has the will to live, so be it. I’ve seen so many that are fighting tooth and nail to stay on that eventually fail, and then there are those that do everything in their power to screw themselves up that just keep going…

It’s a travesty.
 
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