What are core values and why do they matter in a romantic relationship? I hear this a lot in finding compatible romantic partners. I'm confused what are shared (core) value. Do they have to be the same values or (if possible) just compatible?
Some examples of core values would be honesty, self discipline, sechs, religious beliefs, communication, problem solving, how you handle money, political views, go out or stay home, empathy, lifestyle, openness, etc.
These core values are things you believe in and live by. They define who you are as a person.
Most need to be similar to the other person and some can compliment.
For example, I identify with strong Republican views. I can't stand liberals. Our core values are very opposite. I'd be a horrible match for a liberal.
I am big on respect and honor. This is mainly a male value. It causes me problems with women from time to time because most women aren't on my level when it comes to respect and honor.
In regards to sechs a dude that wants plain vanilla sechs will not be a good match for a freak that wants her azz plowed while wearing a ball gag.
My girlfriend and I are both hard workers. This common core value makes it easy to be together. But if she was less of a hard worker, it could also compliment our relationship and maybe bring some balance. When you have two people that both work too many hours it's easy to not make your relationship #1 priority like it should be.