Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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These aren’t exclusive or mutually exclusive, but these are observations that I have gathered.
1). They never had to do any chasing/jumping through hurdles at the beginning. Yes, this would change after the girl lost interest, but the girl would just chase them from the start. If you are getting mixed signals early on then you aren’t her first choice period.
2). They have a characteristic that benefits them. This could be looks, money, status, height, etc. Dude could living in his mom’s basement and have the personality of a turtle, but he’s 6ft and looks like Jesus with a man bun or his dad is really rich.
3). They have a target market and they stick to it. I think this is the biggest reason why most men have issues with women. We want women that don’t particularly want our type. For example, your typical hot southern blonde is going to want a football qb frat bro Chad, not some engineer dude that can’t name the 3rd string WR on the Atlanta Falcons. My short friend gets laid a lot because he only goes for 5s-7s sports bro type girls that he can connect with. These guys know the type of girls that they can connect with and they stick with them. This goes for emotionally damaged women with daddy issues. These guys attract these type of women and know how to keep them interested.
4). They never give up chasing- This guy would find a girl that gives him medium interest but she clearly doesn’t see him as first choice and chase this girl until she exhausted her options and gave in. A lot of us would next the girl after the the second flake while this guy will wait and continue chasing.
1). They never had to do any chasing/jumping through hurdles at the beginning. Yes, this would change after the girl lost interest, but the girl would just chase them from the start. If you are getting mixed signals early on then you aren’t her first choice period.
2). They have a characteristic that benefits them. This could be looks, money, status, height, etc. Dude could living in his mom’s basement and have the personality of a turtle, but he’s 6ft and looks like Jesus with a man bun or his dad is really rich.
3). They have a target market and they stick to it. I think this is the biggest reason why most men have issues with women. We want women that don’t particularly want our type. For example, your typical hot southern blonde is going to want a football qb frat bro Chad, not some engineer dude that can’t name the 3rd string WR on the Atlanta Falcons. My short friend gets laid a lot because he only goes for 5s-7s sports bro type girls that he can connect with. These guys know the type of girls that they can connect with and they stick with them. This goes for emotionally damaged women with daddy issues. These guys attract these type of women and know how to keep them interested.
4). They never give up chasing- This guy would find a girl that gives him medium interest but she clearly doesn’t see him as first choice and chase this girl until she exhausted her options and gave in. A lot of us would next the girl after the the second flake while this guy will wait and continue chasing.