I'm still very new to this but as I get more free time I've been making little strides. I opened a small group of two cute females and a male as we were leaving the bar last night. I had them engaged and all three were responding to a question I'd asked but I wasn't sure where to go from there, particularly how to isolate one of the girls from the dude, who was probably boyfriend to one of them. What are some tactics you guys have used or are familiar with in order to achieve this?
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You're at a bar, so there's all kinds of fun things around you can do. Ask your target to play darts, or play pool. Some bars have a wheel that you spin, and whatever you land on, you have to drink. Most people are bored at the bar anyway, so having something fun to invite your target to join you in is a good way to go.
A lot of guys say that if the girl's friends are real b!tchy and c0ck-blocky, that talking to and befriending them is a good idea. Not exactly. In fact, by talking to the b!tchy friends, you're actually inviting them to hit you with more b!tchiness. People are adults. So is your target. If she's into you, she'll agree to come play darts, or get a drink, or whatever.
I was on my way out of the bar at the time so, while I had the time constraint working for me, I wasn't sure how to close right then and there so I kind of just made a joke and walked away lol. The other thing is I wasn't sure which girl the guy may have been with so wasn't sure who to choose as a target. I still have a lot to learn
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Work that question into the height of the conversation. "So, how long have you two been dating?"
You can ask anyone that. When he/she answers, he/she will make eye contact with their partner.
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Chuck beat me to the answer. This is a question anyone that goes to bars should always ask.
Never assume that every guy and gal that walk in together are a couple. Half the time, you'll discover that the guy is a gay, a sibling, or "just a friend." The "friend" can work against you though because if he likes her and settled for friendship, he's not going to like seeing you getting any favorable vibes from the gal.
OP, you put yourself out there and that's great. You'll discover that the more practice, the better you'll become.
Good luck!
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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