"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Losing a fight in front of girl

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He has a solid martial arts background, so I was wondering why he didn't give the guy a tap. Just to help out.
i was too far away and I wasn’t expecting there to be a fight as it was about 4 o clock on Tuesday afternoon but yeah I would’ve helped out 100%. It happened really fast as well the fight was only about 5-10 seconds long before the other dude ran away.
 

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i was too far away and I wasn’t expecting there to be a fight as it was about 4 o clock on Tuesday afternoon but yeah I would’ve helped out 100%. It happened really fast as well the fight was only about 5-10 seconds long before the other dude ran away.
Women want a man who can be a warrior but chooses not to be. Just the same way we want our woman to be a little bit jealous but w hate dealing with the drama when she acts jealous.

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Bizarre one, obviously more to it. Luckily if you live in a half decent area and once get into 30's plus and conduct yourself in a reasonable manner, tge odds of something like this happening are almost non existent.

All this macho stuff about guns and being some kind of warrior/combat ready to protect loved ones from an attack are amusing, but not surprising.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it sometimes better to admit defeat and clear off with your jaw (if not your dignity) intact ? maybe better to be an alive coward than a dead hero
 

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Lyrics
The hulk of a man with a beer in his hand he looked like a drunk old fool
And I knew if I hit him right why I could knock him off of that stool
But everybody they said watch out hey that's the Tiger Man McCool
He's had the whole lotta fights and he's always come out winner yeah he's a winner
But I had myself about five too many and I walked up tall and proud
I faced his back and I faced the fact that he had never stooped or bowed
I said Tiger Man you're a *****cat and a hush fell on the crowd
I said let's you and me go outside and see who's the winner
Well he gripped the bar with one big hairy hand then he braced against the wall
He slowly looked up from his beer my God that man was tall
He said boy I see you're a scrapper so just before you fall
I'm gonna tell you just a little bout what it means to be a winner
He said now you see these bright white smilin' teeth you know they ain't my own
Mine rolled away like Chicklets down the street in San Antone
But I left that person cursin' nursin' seven broken bones
And he only broke ah three of mine that makes me the winner
He said now behind this grin I got a steel pin that holds my jaw in place
A trophy of my most successful motorcycle race
And each morning when I wake and touch this scar across my face
It reminds me of all I got by bein' a winner
Now this broken back was the dyin' act of a handsome Harry Clay
That sticky Cincinnati night I stole his wife away
But that woman she gets uglier and she gets meaner every day
But I got her boy that's what makes me a winner
He said you gotta speak loud when you challenge me son cause it's hard for me to hear
With this twisted neck and these migraine pains and this big ole cauliflower ear
And if it wadn't for this glass eye of mine why I'd shed a happy tear
To think of all that you gonna get by bein' a winner
I got arthritic elbows boy I got dislocated knees
From pickin' fights with thunderstorms and chargin' into trees
And my nose been broke so often I might lose if I sneeze
And son you say you still wanna be a winner
Now you remind me a lotta my younger days with your knuckles a clenchin' white
But boy I'm gonna sit right here and sip this beer all night
And if there's somethin' that you gotta gain to prove by winnin' some silly fight
Well okay I quit I lose you're the winner
So I stumbled from that barroom not so tall and not so proud
And behind me I still hear the hoots of laughter of the crowd
But my eyes still see and my nose still works and my teeth're still in my mouth
And you know I guess that makes me the winner
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Songwriters: Shel Silverstein
 

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Losing a fight will not make her lose respect for you if you were game. This dude ran off without his girl like a *****. Had he fought like a lion and lost, his girl would probably still respect him. Winning a fight will usually make her gain respect for you if you weren’t being a total ****head and instigated it yourself. Defusing a situation usually also gains you respect.
 

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We don't know if the guy getting beat had it coming to him...
from what I seen that day, it looks like he did. I mean the guy who beat him up didn’t look like he was drunk or on drugs, but he was shouting at them from like 5 meters away and the other guy just ignored him.
 

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Bizarre one, obviously more to it. Luckily if you live in a half decent area and once get into 30's plus and conduct yourself in a reasonable manner, tge odds of something like this happening are almost non existent.

All this macho stuff about guns and being some kind of warrior/combat ready to protect loved ones from an attack are amusing, but not surprising.
Just the other day in NYC that big Tyrone/bubba attacked that old Asian lady. For some reason around NYC there have been a lot of random attacks. Like shoving a stanger onto subway tracks.

Look at Bernhard Goetz. Anyone can be attacked at random. This is why I pack heat. I would never live in a state that doesn't allow legal carry. In fact, I hate FL gun laws and needing a permit. Next state I live in will be constitutional carry state like my home state of MO is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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from what I seen that day, it looks like he did. I mean the guy who beat him up didn’t look like he was drunk or on drugs, but he was shouting at them from like 5 meters away and the other guy just ignored him.
Were they both white?
 

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The reverse is also true, you could always pay some guy to attack your girlfriend so you can beat him up. She will be so turned on by you.

Just pay the guy like $100 before and another $100 after to get beat up.
 

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The reverse is also true, you could always pay some guy to attack your girlfriend so you can beat him up. She will be so turned on by you.

Just pay the guy like $100 before and another $100 after to get beat up.
I don’t think I’d need to be this extreme haha
 

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Either know how to fight or look like you do. Alternatively, I've de-escalated situations with just talking since I can't fight for ****.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The reverse is also true, you could always pay some guy to attack your girlfriend so you can beat him up. She will be so turned on by you.

Just pay the guy like $100 before and another $100 after to get beat up.
Good thinking!

Game on for the #fightclubcels
 

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Just the other day in NYC that big Tyrone/bubba attacked that old Asian lady. For some reason around NYC there have been a lot of random attacks. Like shoving a stanger onto subway tracks.

Look at Bernhard Goetz. Anyone can be attacked at random. This is why I pack heat. I would never live in a state that doesn't allow legal carry. In fact, I hate FL gun laws and needing a permit. Next state I live in will be constitutional carry state like my home state of MO is.
Yeah, I'm from a reasonably nice large town in UK. No doubt living somewhere like London, NY, LA carries slightly higher chance of encountering violent nutters.
 

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I bet you money that if you could check on these 2 several months from now they are not together. This is hind brain shyt. And she won't even know it. She will monkey branch.
Yeah, guy must feel a bit of shame about it. not only getting beaten, but running away. Could be one of those incidious things that builds and builds, probably manifesting in different ways. Her starting to disrespect, nag perhaps.

Very difficult one to recover from depending on their background, what else he offers her.
 

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Yeah there must be more to the story because he was shouting at them from the other side of the road, I didn’t catch what he was shouting. But **** being that other dude that got beat up because even I felt a heart broken by watching that.
My guess it was probably her ex boyfriend or a dude he has had issues with for a long time
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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