MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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for USSRGeoMaxCels, or at least USSREscortMaxCels:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's always the average person that suffers the most. There are a lot of psychopaths celebrating dead Russian soldiers.That doesn't sound like good news. I don't wish this kind of harm on anyone.
from experience there will always people celebrating someone dead, also considerating they started, the more who die more likely putin will fail in his pursue, and more people in russia will start to hate him.It's always the average person that suffers the most. There are a lot of psychopaths celebrating dead Russian soldiers.
Most of whom are just Young men who were forced to go to war. These people have families back home
This Started with Euromaiden, an American backed Coup d'état to oust the pro russian president of ukraine, America has also been funding terrorists that fight Russian allies. They sanctioned Turkey for buying Russian missile defence systems.from experience there will always people celebrating someone dead, also considerating they started, the more who die more likely putin will fail in his pursue, and more people in russia will start to hate him.
wars nowadays is not only for resources, but also for people support, and one way to lose support like hell is for troops dieing a lot and losing morals with in turn will make the soldier family and close friends start to be against it
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
course because russia never did the same before, blamming someone else for doing what you do is kinda.....This Started with Euromaiden, an American backed Coup d'état to oust the pro russian president of ukraine, America has also been funding terrorists that fight Russian allies. They sanctioned Turkey for buying Russian missile defence systems.
Put yourself in Russia's shoes, are you going to just stand by while another country diplomatically isolates you for years?
You need to always look at both sides of the conflict, nothing is ever black and white.