“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girl on bumble asked me out to a bar.

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I wonder if everyone that talks about "quality" females is looking at it from the relationship perspective. I don't see why "quality" matters when one just wants to pump and dump or have fvck buddys.
It is about thinking ahead.

Fvck buddies are fine but eventually we all come across a girl that provides additional value beyond the bedroom. Without some LTR practice, you end up losing the girl. That’s why half the threads on this forum are about crashed plates, catching feelings, and getting dumped. Fvck buddy sloot game does not help you in these situations.
 

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How do you know she wouldnt buy you drinks or not go 50/50?

Seems like cutting your nose off to spite your face on this occasion.
 

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How do you know she wouldnt buy you drinks or not go 50/50?

Seems like cutting your nose off to spite your face on this occasion.
Good point. I just was annoyed since I hate bars and going on dates
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I told her no. She just wants free drinks imo.
Good point. I just was annoyed since I hate bars and going on dates
It's difficult to get laid without going on dates. The only way a guy could conceivably pull that off is if he just picked up same night lays from bar approaching. If you're on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, you're going to have to do on drinks dates at bars with your swipe matches to get some pusssy. If you get pusssy on your first date from a swipe app with a woman, you're doing better than most. Most swipe app interactions are "one date, no sex, no second date". Some swipe app interactions take 2-4 dates before sex.
 

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I had a girl I met online cancel on a first date at the last minute. She was wishy washy for my second attempt. She wanted to keep talking. So I did. I made a 3rd date attempt. I told this chic to meet me at XYZ bar and she was buying or I was done talking. She tried to get me to order her an Uber to get there and I said no. She showed up, bought almost all the drinks, we got drunk, I drove her to my house. Fuhked her. Dropped her off on my way to work in the morning. Never called her again.

A lot of women responsd positively to a little force. I didn't care if this one agreed or not, all I wanted was free drinks and easy puzzy. She pissed me off so bad with her B.s. that I only wanted to hit it and quit it. Eff her games. And don't care attitude worked.
 

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Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk
in other threads, you commented that your lay count for 2022 is less than you want. I like your idea on this but it's not me to convince the women...

buy her A (one drink) and then cut her loose if she isn't any good for you. promise sex is a pretty high requirement for a girl to meet you. maybe she wants to check you out first and a bar is a way to do that. Now if she said how about a free dinner cruise, then no way. I know it's not your style, but looking at how to turn the lay count around.
 
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