You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've seen women with leg muscles, but that's about it. Upper body strength, and psychological capacity to use aggression intelligently are not things that women can do as well as men. I don't hate women, but boy whenever I say this to groups of women they do get angry.Aggressivity, strenght and gas are as important if not more than technique.
When I started training MMA within few weeks I was able to overpower all the women training there even those training from years despite not being exactly the biggest or strongest guy there.
Women lack what it takes in their head even before than in their muscles, nature didnt build them with that it takes for competition and conflict unless such conflict is over regulated and they get outside support to keep it within strict limitations.
When you tell stuff and people get angry its because they know its true.I've seen women with leg muscles, but that's about it. Upper body strength, and psychological capacity to use aggression intelligently are not things that women can do as well as men. I don't hate women, but boy whenever I say this to groups of women they do get angry.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women's tennis gets good TV ratings and attendance. This is probably the women's sport that most consistently does well. Many female tennis players are fit and feminine women. Many of the men who watch women's tennis desire to have sex with the women. Sex appeal is a big driver of ratings in women's tennis. There are some women's tennis players that do not look feminine or attractive. Sometimes, they are good players. Serena Williams is an example of this. Men's professional tennis is played at a much more competitive level and higher skill level than women's tennis.Does anyone, other than the girl’s parents, watch women’s sports?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pretty much.Does anyone, other than the girl’s parents, watch women’s sports?
The WNBA is a loss leader so that womyn don't get pissy and stop watching the MNBA.The WNBA is not good. The quality of play is much lower than the quality of play in the NBA. The NBA has subsized this league for a long time. The WNBA has been around since 1997. Prior to 1997, there were multiple attempts at women's professional basketball and they all failed. The WNBA would have failed too without the NBA.