“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The SECRET of the chubby/fat 6.5 to 7.5 face wise guy who YOU see with a "HOT/Cute" girl

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the real secret behind this is that HE USED TO BE FIT. Then they got into a relatiionship with her for months/years then got FAT.

So one day you walking around the mall and you see a couple sitting down. The dude is chubby/fat the girl is hot..well the majority of that story originated from there.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This one is actually pretty common, it's called the post glow up/glow down. I'm in sales and I see it a lot with men hitting their thirties with muffin tops and balding hair with wives that make you go like huh but if you see their older pictures they looked much better when they started dating.
 

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the real secret behind this is that HE USED TO BE FIT. Then they got into a relatiionship with her for months/years then got FAT.

So one day you walking around the mall and you see a couple sitting down. The dude is chubby/fat the girl is hot..well the majority of that story originated from there.
Not always. Sometimes they like how they FEEL around this chubby dude.
 

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the real secret behind this is that HE USED TO BE FIT. Then they got into a relatiionship with her for months/years then got FAT.

So one day you walking around the mall and you see a couple sitting down. The dude is chubby/fat the girl is hot..well the majority of that story originated from there.
Not always. This is definitely sometimes true tho.

Other reasons are some women LIKE bigger guys and see them as big teddy bears.

Also, most women don't feel they are as good looking as guys do. They are always insecure about one thing or another and usually knock themselves down a peg or 2. So a chick a guy sees as a 7 probably sees herself as a 6 or even a 5.5 on a bad day.
 
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Not always. This is definitely sometimes true tho.

Other reasons are some women LIKE bigger guys and see them as big teddy bears.

Also, most women don't feel they are as good looking as guys do. They are always insecure about one thing or another and usually knock themselves down a peg or 2. So a chick a guy sees as a 7 probably sees herself as a 6 or even a 5.5 on a bad day.
this, there's multiple reasons but I think the majority of cases is that most guys have their dry spell pvssy goggles on and see a 5.5 girl as a 7.5 upon glance.
 

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Are we talking about obese men, or the typical guy in his mid 30s who's got some weight on him, but not at obese levels?
 

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Also, most women don't feel they are as good looking as guys do. They are always insecure about one thing or another and usually knock themselves down a peg or 2. So a chick a guy sees as a 7 probably sees herself as a 6 or even a 5.5 on a bad day.
This is usually true. She sees herself in the morning, sometimes locking the door yelling don't come in here. So she can
Doll up completely and air out the bathroom. But once she pops out, she's all that and a bag of chips again.
 
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the real secret behind this is that HE USED TO BE FIT. Then they got into a relatiionship with her for months/years then got FAT.

So one day you walking around the mall and you see a couple sitting down. The dude is chubby/fat the girl is hot..well the majority of that story originated from there.
I would say it is 100X more likely to be vice-versa. :rolleyes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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