"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Theres nothing else I want more than to leave my job

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That said its not that bad of a job but im not a patient guy and I feel like im wasting my potential by working for someone else than ME.

I have this passive income side biz and im getting just pennies from it for now but for next few months illl continue to expand it and ill prob leave my job in like february or slightly later.

I still live with parents and even if i grow my passive income it will still be probably not enough to live on my own but im not ambitious enough to live on my own in the first place. although i did it in the past i feel 0 drive to do it now.

Dont know how people can endure working fulltime for years. even PART TIME is KILLING ME

I have so many plans and things I wanna do once i leave my job and theyre all productive AF

Having a job is like being constrained IMO
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That said its not that bad of a job but im not a patient guy and I feel like im wasting my potential by working for someone else than ME.

I have this passive income side biz and im getting just pennies from it for now but for next few months illl continue to expand it and ill prob leave my job in like february or slightly later.

I still live with parents and even if i grow my passive income it will still be probably not enough to live on my own but im not ambitious enough to live on my own in the first place. although i did it in the past i feel 0 drive to do it now.

Dont know how people can endure working fulltime for years. even PART TIME is KILLING ME

I have so many plans and things I wanna do once i leave my job and theyre all productive AF

Having a job is like being constrained IMO
“Feel like time wasted in current job.

Going to bet on the come by expanding pennies only side gig.

Living with parents now, and side gig probably won’t be enough to pay rent on my own, but I’m not ambitious enough to stand on my own.

I hate working even part time.

I have great plans to do when I leave my job.”

My advice to you if you want it is to grow up, develop some wisdom, drive, and character, then make a plan that isn’t a pie in the sky hope based on Nothing resembling reality…
 

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I know this is 2021, but men have to work to support themselves. And if you have businesses you want to develop, it will take time and work to develop them. You're not a child who needs to be fed and waited on. If you want something, you need to earn it.

This may not be the most pleasant news, but it's reality. Consider it the Red Pill of life. You're working now, even though you don't enjoy it. I respect that.
 

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That said its not that bad of a job but im not a patient guy and I feel like im wasting my potential by working for someone else than ME.

I have this passive income side biz and im getting just pennies from it for now but for next few months illl continue to expand it and ill prob leave my job in like february or slightly later.

I still live with parents and even if i grow my passive income it will still be probably not enough to live on my own but im not ambitious enough to live on my own in the first place. although i did it in the past i feel 0 drive to do it now.

Dont know how people can endure working fulltime for years. even PART TIME is KILLING ME

I have so many plans and things I wanna do once i leave my job and theyre all productive AF

Having a job is like being constrained IMO
Your situation is 100% your responsibility. If you want something good you have to work your butt off for it. Don't talk about it, do it. When you act in the real world, your actions delineate you and you will learn a lot about yourself.

Actions speak louder than words.
 

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The problem with this way of thinking is that the entrepreneur spends his time at what is actuarially very low pay.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Modern Man Advice

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That said its not that bad of a job but im not a patient guy and I feel like im wasting my potential by working for someone else than ME.

I have this passive income side biz and im getting just pennies from it for now but for next few months illl continue to expand it and ill prob leave my job in like february or slightly later.

I still live with parents and even if i grow my passive income it will still be probably not enough to live on my own but im not ambitious enough to live on my own in the first place. although i did it in the past i feel 0 drive to do it now.

Dont know how people can endure working fulltime for years. even PART TIME is KILLING ME

I have so many plans and things I wanna do once i leave my job and theyre all productive AF

Having a job is like being constrained IMO
Just make sure you are a realist and have a solid strategy. Don't be like those people on that "I quit my job" social media trend. Because then you'll realize the income you get from your FT or PT job is funding your business and supporting your lifestyle and I, personally, am not fond of people living off the gov, taxpayers, and social services loopholes.

You are better than that.

PS: Having a business, a "successful" one, and being an "entrepreneur" is not for everyone. And yes, it takes time. Again, be a realist when it comes to financial and business education, etc. More importantly, don't do it for the money alone or even the what. Do it for the why, that is sustainable and truly fulfilling. Take a read:



Hope it works out.


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