Recovering after a messy breakup

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Just dumped my gf and she keeps fighting/ghosting me and the whole process is just draining. Idk what to do and I don’t have the motivation or energy to talk to new women or anything.

 

[Barrister]

It’ll take awhile to get to the point where you want to talk to other women. For the time being, just stick to getting in the gym and improving your job/wealth. You’ll know when it’s time to talk to other women.

Otherwise, you should be in No Contact with your ex. No exceptions. If you really want to get over her you’ll cease all communications. Some guys here will tell you to delete their social media as well. Personally, I think that’s overkill, but maybe you consider it if you continue to feel drained and like you can’t get away from her.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Just dumped my gf and she keeps fighting/ghosting me and the whole process is just draining. Idk what to do and I don’t have the motivation or energy to talk to new women or anything.

Last night at 8:30, you posted this:

is this why my gf is being a **** right now

Now, just 15 hours later, you have not only dumped her, but are going through a 'draining process?' How can you be drained after a half a day?

I smell something, and it rhymes with schmullschmit.