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I don't necessarily disagree about personalities but if you are good company and are enjoyable to be around then you will tend to attract people of similar ilk. Water does seek it's own level.

If however you see sex as a perfunctory experience devoid of human emotion and connection then your view makes perfect sense. We all look through our own lenses and filters at life.
 

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I don't necessarily disagree about personalities but if you are good company and are enjoyable to be around then you will tend to attract people of similar ilk. Water does seek it's own level.

If however you see sex as a perfunctory experience devoid of human emotion and connection then your view makes perfect sense. We all look through our own lenses and filters at life.
But your filter is "correct" right? And your water is the highest level, right?

And it doesn't mean you can't also have a good personality... But think about a person who is friendly and sociable then find out he just wants to fvck every hot girl he sees. That's not socially acceptable in the vast majority of cases and will get you kicked out of any social group. It's best to keep that in secret. I think you'd be surprised to see what a lot of "non escorts" (college girls, etc.) are willing to do when nobody is looking.
 

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But your filter is "correct" right? And your water is the highest level, right?

And it doesn't mean you can't also have a good personality... But think about a person who is friendly and sociable then find out he just wants to fvck every hot girl he sees. That's not socially acceptable in the vast majority of cases and will get you kicked out of any social group. It's best to keep that in secret. I think you'd be surprised to see what a lot of "non escorts" (college girls, etc.) are willing to do when nobody is looking.
No. My filter is my filter. Rooted in my value system just as yours is.

Having been in the nightclub business? My ex husband’s close friend as GM of a huge strip club? I’ve seen lots. Very little surprises me. Very little shocks me. People with character behave with character when nobody will find out.

People who do not have character do whatever they can get away with when nobody is looking.

Few people have character. I can confirm that. I do however. I could do whatever. I elect not to. That reflects my value system.

Many many people will do whatever. That’s true.
 

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No. My filter is my filter. Rooted in my value system just as yours is.

Having been in the nightclub business? My ex husband’s close friend as GM of a huge strip club? I’ve seen lots. Very little surprises me. Very little shocks me. People with character behave with character when nobody will find out.

People who do not have character do whatever they can get away with when nobody is looking.

Few people have character. I can confirm that. I do however. I could do whatever. I elect not to. That reflects my value system.

Many many people will do whatever. That’s true.
What about a girl who works as an escort so she can send money back to her home country to give to her elderly parents and young child? Is that "wrong" according to your value system? Especially when it's 100x more than she could make working anywhere else.
 

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What about a girl who works as an escort so she can send money back to her home country to give to her elderly parents and young child? Is that "wrong" according to your value system? Especially when it's 100x more than she could make working anywhere else.
This is a situation known as a “moral dilemma”.

Unless she enjoys the work…but most do not because they are hired by men they have no natural attraction toward the vast majority of the time.

Moral dilemmas occur in life all the time. Such as steal or starve in a disaster situation.

I do not judge those who truly find themselves in a moral dilemma although they are best avoided if at all possible. There are times when a means to an end a la Machiavelli is justified (the end justifies the means) and I understand that. But the Machiavel often sacrifices something within themselves and crucifies decency and morality and their internal moral compass along the way. This can be an unintended consequence that not every individual can live with.

Ask a soldier who suffers from PTSD for example after committing actions in mission that are moral dilemmas.
 

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This is a situation known as a “moral dilemma”.

Unless she enjoys the work…but most do not because they are hired by men they have no natural attraction toward the vast majority of the time.

Moral dilemmas occur in life all the time. Such as steal or starve in a disaster situation.

I do not judge those who truly find themselves in a moral dilemma although they are best avoided if at all possible. There are times when a means to an end a la Machiavelli is justified (the end justifies the means) and I understand that. But the Machiavel often sacrifices something within themselves and crucifies decency and morality and their internal moral compass along the way. This can be an unintended consequence that not every individual can live with.

Ask a soldier who suffers from PTSD for example after committing actions in mission that are moral dilemmas.
I don't see it as immoral.

To me, it's much more immoral when business price gouge. For example, charging people $10 for a sandwich at the airport because there's no other choice.
 

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I don't see it as immoral.

To me, it's much more immoral when business price gouge. For example, charging people $10 for a sandwich at the airport because there's no other choice.
I didn’t say immoral. Nor did I judge the situation. You described a situation that creates a moral dilemma for many people.

If you have no moral compass then you don’t register a moral dilemma. You simply act in your own best interest, whatever you perceive that to be and irrespective of others.

For people without any moral compass things like laws and other societal constraints are at times the only thing keeping them in adherence to societal norms.

You see no issue hiring out your sexual gratification. Do you care about the age of your partner if your partner is under age in certain jurisdictions? I expect you do not care. That would be consistent with the position you have taken.
 

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I'm probably about to get perma-banned anyway.

Nothing irritates me more than female narcissism.
remember, lever let a woman be your judge. convincing them of your way or idea is not possible. they will choose to agree or disagree with you depending on how they feel in that moment, regardless of the argument at hand.

as you know women that nag and bych and sht test don't have the highest interest in that guy. women with super high interest are very nice to be with and like most of what you do and say regardless of what it is.

one of the core arguments in this realm is AWALT. at a core biological level, it is definitely awalt. the core chemicals and evolutionary drivers are the same from one sample to the next. different high level teaching is done to different women and the result is different knowledge and skills. the core is the same, built from the core. men are no better, but that's a different topic.

many or all, not sure.. women will criticize a good man who does not win if he did not win due to choice of compassion or not being ruthless. winning at any cost is the attractive man. right out of evolutionary sexual thoery. Not killing the enemy that is down is unattractive.
 

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I didn’t say immoral. Nor did I judge the situation. You described a situation that creates a moral dilemma for many people.

If you have no moral compass then you don’t register a moral dilemma. You simply act in your own best interest, whatever you perceive that to be and irrespective of others.

For people without any moral compass things like laws and other societal constraints are at times the only thing keeping them in adherence to societal norms.

You see no issue hiring out your sexual gratification. Do you care about the age of your partner if your partner is under age in certain jurisdictions? I expect you do not care. That would be consistent with the position you have taken.
Wow. You're saying I have no moral compass?

And accusing me of being a pedophile. My God.

I've never been with anyone under the age of 18, no matter what's legal anywhere. Not that I have to explain myself to you.

You sit here and talk about how "elite" you are in every one of your posts and how everyone you deal with is also "elite." You're pretty transparent.

And you've never had any successful relationships of your own lol

Bye.
 

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remember, lever let a woman be your judge. convincing them of your way or idea is not possible. they will choose to agree or disagree with you depending on how they feel in that moment, regardless of the argument at hand.

as you know women that nag and bych and sht test don't have the highest interest in that guy. women with super high interest are very nice to be with and like most of what you do and say regardless of what it is.

one of the core arguments in this realm is AWALT. at a core biological level, it is definitely awalt. the core chemicals and evolutionary drivers are the same from one sample to the next. different high level teaching is done to different women and the result is different knowledge and skills. the core is the same, built from the core. men are no better, but that's a different topic.

many or all, not sure.. women will criticize a good man who does not win if he did not win due to choice of compassion or not being ruthless. winning at any cost is the attractive man. right out of evolutionary sexual thoery. Not killing the enemy that is down is unattractive.
What amazes me about some women... Like the one I was just going back and forth with.... Is the huge discrepancy between what they have to offer and are worth in reality.... And the delusions they create of their worth in their brain. Even when presented with evidence right in front of them, they will cling to their delusions.
 

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I didn’t say immoral. Nor did I judge the situation. You described a situation that creates a moral dilemma for many people.

If you have no moral compass then you don’t register a moral dilemma. You simply act in your own best interest, whatever you perceive that to be and irrespective of others.

For people without any moral compass things like laws and other societal constraints are at times the only thing keeping them in adherence to societal norms.

You see no issue hiring out your sexual gratification. Do you care about the age of your partner if your partner is under age in certain jurisdictions? I expect you do not care. That would be consistent with the position you have taken.
And it's also kind of ironic trying to judge a guy for paying for sex when it is without a doubt the #1 thing that females look for.

When I used to drive a Porsche, random girls would talk to me and talk about me... All of a sudden I was real interesting.
 

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And it's also kind of ironic trying to judge a guy for paying for sex when it is without a doubt the #1 thing that females look for.

When I used to drive a Porsche, random girls would talk to me and talk about me... All of a sudden I was real interesting.
we try to downplay this but it is true. from high school on up, car shows financial status. even for girls that know better the feeling of seeing the nice wheels is still real. they might make a sideways comment but they are looking all the same.
 

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we try to downplay this but it is true. from high school on up, car shows financial status. even for girls that know better the feeling of seeing the nice wheels is still real. they might make a sideways comment but they are looking all the same.
Yea only "losers" pay for sex...

Losers like JFK, MLK, Justin Bieber...




 

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I didn’t say immoral. Nor did I judge the situation. You described a situation that creates a moral dilemma for many people.

If you have no moral compass then you don’t register a moral dilemma. You simply act in your own best interest, whatever you perceive that to be and irrespective of others.

For people without any moral compass things like laws and other societal constraints are at times the only thing keeping them in adherence to societal norms.

You see no issue hiring out your sexual gratification. Do you care about the age of your partner if your partner is under age in certain jurisdictions? I expect you do not care. That would be consistent with the position you have taken.
What is worse morals between the two?

1. Paying a hooker for fun.

2. Winston Churchill causing millions of deaths by famine


???
 

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Paying for sex has become normalized, where I live it's illegal to buy ***** but not sell lol
 

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What amazes me about some women... Like the one I was just going back and forth with.... Is the huge discrepancy between what they have to offer and are worth in reality.... And the delusions they create of their worth in their brain. Even when presented with evidence right in front of them, they will cling to their delusions.
SMV we equate worth with what members of the opposite sex are attracted and how attracted. High worth attracts all, low worth none.

according to you, you have persistent submission from high smv women, therefore your high worth.

according to her, she has persistent SUBMISSION from high smv men, therefore high worth.

in this case, both are high worth to others, therefore both are high worth. you and her.
 

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Paying for sex has become normalized, where I live it's illegal to buy ***** but not sell lol
It's been normal since prehistoric times. It's been normal since before humans evolved.

 

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SMV we equate worth with what members of the opposite sex are attracted and how attracted. High worth attracts all, low worth none.

according to you, you have persistent submission from high smv women, therefore your high worth.

according to her, she has persistent SUBMISSION from high smv men, therefore high worth.

in this case, both are high worth to others, therefore both are high worth. you and her.
I never said anything about myself. I trade meat for sex just like chimpanzees do lol. I have way more important things going on, like my business.

The sex is something I just do for fun (and perhaps somewhat compulsively). I don't take it as a serious part of my life.
 

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It's been normal since prehistoric times. It's been normal since before humans evolved.

This is literally the best article I've ever found.

Now all you folks here who like to talk about cavemen have something real to discuss. Rather than your nonsense about how you think you're the "leader of the tribe" lol
 

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I never said anything about myself. I trade meat for sex just like chimpanzees do lol. I have way more important things going on, like my business.

The sex is something I just do for fun (and perhaps somewhat compulsively). I don't take it as a serious part of my life.
the formula is still the same. you have attractive women submitting to you. how that happens is a side topic. in some fashion or another, you have to be of high value. how you achieve that value and manage it, is ... your business. but it is real else attractive women would not.

perception is a wild thing...
 
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