"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think the current zeitgeist of the "OK Corral" is fueled by male sexual frustration?

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I was reading this article (written before the acquittal) of the Kyle Rittenhouse case (whom I would definitely regard as incel-tier), and it got me thinking:
The use the analogy of the OK Corral, and it is quite accurate. This got me thinking that if there was one thing about the Wild West, it was that it was an extraordinary sausage fest, with most of the men who made it out there only able to go out there because they couldn't secure a wife, even in the wake of the Civil-War male culling. Thus, the typical Wild West man was extraordinarily sexually frustrated, and went panning for gold (or rustling cattle, etc.) so as to have money to spend on saloon-poon. If today's age were not so sexually frustrating, all the hot heads would have their "heads" occupied, and thus not fixated on violence. And of course, I think some of this behavior is tied to the men, if even subconsciously, thinking that they need to build up bad-boy or hero cred.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mostly yes.

I also think it’s just pussification of America in general. Threat of physical harm keeps people in line. Handing everyone a firearm removes accountability because is no longer the threat of old school ass whoopings. I’m willing to bet most young men nowadays have never even been in a fight.
 

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The only reason there was lawlessness in Kenosha that night was because the government and law enforcement abandoned their duty. More specifically, law enforcement abandoned Kenosha to lawlessness at the order of their government bosses. That's what opened the door for someone to fill the void. I hope they've learned their lesson.
 

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I agree with the "lack of sex" point of view and I believe we should ass the "lack of validation" one and the "lack of trust and commitment to society".

Face fact, todays society is made for women and old people...anything that allows men to express themselves or even just vent is removed and punished while at the same time taxation and regulation are at the highest in history.
 

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Mostly yes.

I also think it’s just pussification of America in general. Threat of physical harm keeps people in line. Handing everyone a firearm removes accountability because is no longer the threat of old school ass whoopings. I’m willing to bet most young men nowadays have never even been in a fight.
You get into a fight now and end up with a lawsuit even if you are the one defending yourself. I've seen people go to jail for stopping a home invader from stealing their stuff.

Like wtf are you supposed to do? I honestly think if someone attacks you, you have every right to use lethal force to defend yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree with the "lack of sex" point of view and I believe we should ass the "lack of validation" one and the "lack of trust and commitment to society".

Face fact, todays society is made for women and old people...anything that allows men to express themselves or even just vent is removed and punished while at the same time taxation and regulation are at the highest in history.
I couldn't have said it better than this.
 

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You get into a fight now and end up with a lawsuit even if you are the one defending yourself. I've seen people go to jail for stopping a home invader from stealing their stuff.

Like wtf are you supposed to do? I honestly think if someone attacks you, you have every right to use lethal force to defend yourself.
In your home yes. In public no. I live in a duty to retreat state. If I go instigate a fist fight armed with a concealed weapon it would be difficult to claim self-defense. It’s also just idiotic. Too many guns in the USA. Our society needs just good old fashioned ass whoopings.
 

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They want to take our right to self defense because they want to take our guns. And they want to take our guns so that they will have complete control. Simple, really.
 

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You can’t defend yourself without a gun?
You clearly have minimal experience in dealing with the public without a gun, any time there is a, physical altercation you have people who could defuse it stay back and you have people who have never been in an altercation trying to get into the middle of it.

Especially in younger people, the idea of a fair fight is no longer existent, the idea now is to stack the deck as far into your favor as you can, 1 on 1 fights are incredibly rare these days and even then, a guy who wants to fight 1 on 1 is probably semi trained.

The days of the 1 on 1 are gone, kids don't fight fair anymore, mainly because they can weave a narrative using social media, the disconnect between reality and SM is very real
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You clearly have minimal experience in dealing with the public without a gun, any time there is a, physical altercation you have people who could defuse it stay back and you have people who have never been in an altercation trying to get into the middle of it.
This is a rediculous statement. Most people (myself included) do not carry guns in public.

Especially in younger people, the idea of a fair fight is no longer existent, the idea now is to stack the deck as far into your favor as you can, 1 on 1 fights are incredibly rare these days and even then, a guy who wants to fight 1 on 1 is probably semi trained.

The days of the 1 on 1 are gone, kids don't fight fair anymore, mainly because they can weave a narrative using social media, the disconnect between reality and SM is very real
Perhaps there are fights you aren't supposed to win.
 

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Do you think that your silly threads are fulled by obsessive perusal of far-left media?
 

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I also think it’s just pussification of America in general. Threat of physical harm keeps people in line. Handing everyone a firearm removes accountability because is no longer the threat of old school ass whoopings. I’m willing to bet most young men nowadays have never even been in a fight.
I'd say the threat of being shot keep morons who like to start fights for no good reason in line.
 

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You clearly have minimal experience in dealing with the public without a gun, any time there is a, physical altercation you have people who could defuse it stay back and you have people who have never been in an altercation trying to get into the middle of it.

Especially in younger people, the idea of a fair fight is no longer existent, the idea now is to stack the deck as far into your favor as you can, 1 on 1 fights are incredibly rare these days and even then, a guy who wants to fight 1 on 1 is probably semi trained.
EyeBRollin sounds like a nerd who's been watching too many Bruce Lee movies. Real life fights are never fair. Typically, a "street fight" results in someone being swarmed or sucker punched.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I believe this is a very undervalued thread and it could lead to a great discussion if taken seriously.

The entire balance of society is based on men being productive and law abiding which both require men to commit to society for the long term beside their immediate needs...often even going against their own best interest.

We have trees cause they have been planted from men who knew they were not gonna see them grown.
 

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"That's right Mr. Factory worker, janitor and garbage man... You guys just keep slaving away at your pitiful jobs. Do your part keeping this society afloat that doesn't give a damn about you, only your taxes. Don't even think about getting with a decent looking woman. They are all chasing higher tier men. You're beneath them. Society says they all deserve Thor. Don't manspread, mansplain, or be too flirty with women. You don't want a sexual harrasment charge do you? But be sure to do your duty and die for this society when called upon."

I hope more and more men opt out of society till it collapses. We need a reset.
This the Aaron Clarey method of going Galt by "enjoying the decline". Instead of Galt getting fed up with working and paying taxes, Incels are getting fed up with working but not getting the poon in return, hence the meme of NEETBuxxing.
 

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This the Aaron Clarey method of going Galt by "enjoying the decline". Instead of Galt getting fed up with working and paying taxes, Incels are getting fed up with working but not getting the poon in return, hence the meme of NEETBuxxing.
You need some real-life friends, bruh. Your posts are a cry for help.
 
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