The Professor
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What do you think about ignoring your girlfriends text and calls if she has been rude or disrespectful? Is it effective?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ignore her?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Yep, ignore her and probably next her depending on the context/situation.
darksprezzatura
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Reward good behaviour.
Ignore bad behaviour, else quickly punish it by walking away, either temporarily or forever.
Ignore bad behaviour, else quickly punish it by walking away, either temporarily or forever.