Josh Davidson
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Also, how do I escalate things in real life?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do I escalate the conversation on OLD?
- Thread starter Josh Davidson
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don Dark Horse
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There is no one way to escalate for OLD and IRL.
For OLD:
Don't beat around the bush. Ask for the number, the date, drinks or whatever as soon as you can. Can be after a little back and forth but don't waste your time. Schedule a hangout and say bye, chat soon. Make sure to confirm times the day before and check in about 30 mins before the date. You can even say, hey I'm going to be 10 mins late, see what she says. There are so many time wasters and flakers out there, so don't be surprised.
IRL:
There's so much info on the forum about this. Do some searching and you'll find some golden threads.
For OLD:
Don't beat around the bush. Ask for the number, the date, drinks or whatever as soon as you can. Can be after a little back and forth but don't waste your time. Schedule a hangout and say bye, chat soon. Make sure to confirm times the day before and check in about 30 mins before the date. You can even say, hey I'm going to be 10 mins late, see what she says. There are so many time wasters and flakers out there, so don't be surprised.
IRL:
There's so much info on the forum about this. Do some searching and you'll find some golden threads.
devilkingx2
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darksprezzatura
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Exactly this^
Escalation = Compliance + Consent
Tell her to give you her number.
Tell her to meet you at this date at this time if she's free.
Lean in for the kiss if you're having a good time.
Eject if she doesn't give her number.
Eject if she says she's busy.
Eject if she turns her face for the kiss.
Eject if she isn't enthusiastic.
A man's dating problems can be solved by action + calibrated game
Glassguy
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Pretty much sums it up. The second they make things difficult to meet, leave them on read and move on.
High interest chicks only. Ditch the rest
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.