"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bad hair days?

forcerecon01

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Just curious do you guys ever get bad hair days and if so what do you do about it?How important is it to have a a good hair style in attracting women? What products do you use? I get a bad hair day every other day so I'm thinking my barber isn't that good or im not using the right product.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Those that experience no hair days may be bothered with this question.

Bust out the Soul Glo
“Beautiful, sexy, easy as 1, 2, 3”
”Just let your soul glow, just let it shine through”
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I never use any product and I only shampoo 2-3x a week, sometimes less. If you let natural oils build up in your hair it'll be more pliable and hold its shape more.

I always get #1 or #2 buzzed with a fade on the sides and back, and get the front and top trimmed down. Very practical and easy to maintain. And I only need to get it cut once every couple of months.

If you comb your hair right after a shower and let it air dry, it is a lot easier to get it to do what you want and it'll stay in place fairly well especially if you don't use shampoo.
 
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I never use any product and I only shampoo 2-3x a week, sometimes less. If you let natural oils build up in your hair it'll be more pliable and hold its shape more.

I always get #1 or #2 buzzed with a fade on the sides and back, and get the front and top trimmed down. Very practical and easy to maintain. And I only need to get it cut once every couple of months.

If you comb your hair right after a shower and let it air dry, it is a lot easier to get it to do what you want and it'll stay in place fairly well especially if you don't use shampoo.
so true
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wash and condition every other day. My hair always looks better on day 2.
I wear a beanie at work every day on account of working ion a giant refrigerated warehouse.
Hair is shoulder length now, this years Joker costume will be epic come Halloween.
 

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SO glad I started shaving my head 11 years ago. Haven't been in a barber shop since.

From what I've seen, wild unkempt hairstyles seem to be popular among the younger crowd. Worrying about how your hair looks comes off as insecure. I chose low maintenance and I am grateful every day. Well my mustache is getting to be a little more work though....

 
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