This was a great comment, but you kinda lost me at 4) and 5)
I'm all for some sexual innuendo, but I'm not asking a woman about dildos quickly on a first date.
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Lingerie is different, but I don't go too agressive on the sexual side. Maybe because sex is not the only thing I care about on a first date.
Also, I never feel the need to touch her too much before a kiss. Usually guiding her with my hand on her back while getting a seat and semi-intentional touching while talking is the most I do. If she's even remotely interested, she'll do the touching, specially when you're saying something funny or surprising, as women are very reactive to stuff like this.
I agree with everything else you've said, good stuff.