Field Report: Met with Girl from Daytime Instadate. Killer Instinct Tips?

[nicksaiz65]

FIELD REPORT: MET WITH GIRL FROM INSTADATE

I was able to meet up with the girl I had an Insta Date with yesterday. Me and my friends were throwing a get together at the pool that day, with drinks. I decided to invite her, and she came through.

I’m quite pleased with that: the fact that I am able to cold approach girls during the day, Insta date them, and then get them to come hang out with me later on.

We hung out at the gathering and had a good time. She drinks a little bit, but not too much. She says she’s a lightweight lol.

So I invite her down to the pool table to isolate her, and I make sure to touch a bit as well.

After that, I invite her to my room to check out my book collection. She agrees, so I’m able to pull her back to my room.

I didn’t end up sealing the deal with her even though I was able to pull her back to my room. I’ll attribute that to a couple of reasons.

1. Bad logistics on my part. I was working a wedding later that day, and I thought I’d have enough time to close the deal. I then get a text that the whole thing was moved an hour up. So I ended up having to run out of there to make it on time.

2. When I had her over, I feel like the time wasn’t exactly conducive to sex. I had her in my room at 4 PM. Not exactly pull o clock.

So when she was in my room, I didn’t really feel the vibe on going for the kiss/sex. Once we were in the room, I sat on the bed, but she didn’t come sit beside me. She just stood up checking out the bookcase while we were talking. Therefore I didn’t feel comfortable kissing her then, I felt like it would’ve just come out of the blue. I closed the door when we went into the room, and she opened it right back up when she came out lol. I hope I didn’t freak her out with that: like “Why is this dude closing the door on me?”

When I’ve pulled girls back to my room before, they’ve usually just jumped in my bed lol. And then it was cake from there. So this was a bit different.

I’m thinking that I should’ve gone/pushed for it harder(Killer Instinct) by telling her to sit beside me on the bed. Then I could’ve escalated from there. I remember in AMS’ book, he said that he does this to help escalate things on the way to sex.

I think I could also project a more sexual intent towards her even in the social gatherings. So eye contact, and flirting with her/making more sexual verbal comments.

With this girl, I will hit her up and try to set up a date date with her before I leave for Miami. And then I’ll use what I learn here to seal the deal properly.

So basically, can you guys tell me what I should’ve done here, and what I could’ve done better so that my game can improve? And give me some Killer Instinct Tips? I appreciate it.

 

[Velasco]

Therefore I didn’t feel comfortable kissing her then, I felt like it would’ve just come out of the blue

This is why you pull girls back to your place/room under a sexual frame. So she knows exactly why she's going there. What let's go back to my room to "check out my book collection" really means.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Don't EVER do this again... This is how you get yourself into major trouble, like closing the door without any major moves before hand was a Creepy thing to do, she clearly wasn't feeling it and when this happens she is either really feeling on somebody else at the party or she's just not interested.

Just because she let you touch her does not mean you are in, this is disgraceful bro do better

Like if you banged everyone at the party would know you guys banged on first meet up, obviously she isn't going to bang you like this is a given, especially not at the place you met with a bunch of people, like when have you ever made it aware you banged a chick on first meet up, it's nefarious and embarrassing for her

 

[nicksaiz65]

This is why you pull girls back to your place/room under a sexual frame. So she knows exactly why she's going there. What let's go back to my room to "check out my book collection" really means.

Yeah I’m still working on improving my sexual vibe more. A major key

 

[nicksaiz65]

Don't EVER do this again... This is how you get yourself into major trouble, like closing the door without any major moves before hand was a Creepy thing to do, she clearly wasn't feeling it and when this happens she is either really feeling on somebody else at the party or she's just not interested.

Just because she let you touch her does not mean you are in, this is disgraceful bro do better

Like if you banged everyone at the party would know you guys banged on first meet up, obviously she isn't going to bang you like this is a given, especially not at the place you met with a bunch of people, like when have you ever made it aware you banged a chick on first meet up, it's nefarious and embarrassing for her

Check out my Lay Report 10 post that I made on here! I was having a party at my place, and banged a chick in my room the first time I met her and then we both went back to the party lol.

I’ve definitely banged chicks on the first meetup. I may close the door after I start kissing her though. Idk, I’ll have to keep playing with that.

 

[2Rocky]

invite her to your place for a 1 on 1. You could open with "hey I wanted to spend more time but I had a wedding gig..."

She's probably wondering why you didn't make a move....but the door thing is a little creepy....

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Check out my Lay Report 10 post that I made on here! I was having a party at my place, and banged a chick in my room the first time I met her and then we both went back to the party lol.

I’ve definitely banged chicks on the first meetup. I may close the door after I start kissing her though. Idk, I’ll have to keep playing with that.

doing the same things over and over, expecting the same results, this isn't really game, because your not responding, your simply progressing through the motions and she probably felt on this or again, had interest for another at the party.

But you have stumbled upon something that maybe you are not aware of, but simply put, your first meeting with a woman, if her heart rate is up, she's going to associate you with a faster heart beat, which is actually a feigned sense of attraction, even if it isn't really there it can sometimes be enough to get in. Parties are cool, buy maybe invite her for a workout or something.

Parties are cool, but banging on first meet up at a party and everyone knows you banged, this is how a lot of horror stories start fueled by regret on her end, especially if alcohol involved... You want to remain in the shadows so she doesn't have to do damage control on her image and a woman who feels no need to do damage control in this situation, this is going to protect yourself and her, it's a win.

Something to think about.