Yo...I don't want to sound full of myself

[_sideways_]

....you guys I ended that one relationship....if you read it...


But,...I live with two very cute very different sisters.
And as you know... When you live with girls, one has to be polite.


Point is... I'm catching feelings, the other already came to my bed and the other is catching feelings....

I don't want to do anything bad.
I will follow my heart.

But I need ideas as to how move things along.

I already go to the movies and shyt with both of them...as to keep it casual... They both know I'm not hugging either one of them.


But I need hugs too.


I live with these girls.
They both make me laugh.
I don't want to move out because I like it here.

We play cards and literally live together like....we cook and eat together.
The mom is super cool. God bless her.

But I know one or both of them is looking at me.
Me too though.

Yo seriously....I find myself in my bed alone waiting for her to come to my bed again.

 

[Barrister]

So you already slept with one and the other likes you. And they’re both your roommates? I’d say you shat where you eat and you’re fu*ked at this point. This is going to get ugly unless you commit to the one that already slept with you. Which it sounds like you don’t want. You’re in for a ride lol.

 

[_sideways_]

No....I want to commit to the one.
But maybe she doesn't.

 

[Glassguy]

No....I want to commit to the one.

Why in the world would you want to do that?

 

[Barrister]

No....I want to commit to the one.
But maybe she doesn't.

Didn’t you just get out of a LTR? Committing to someone else that fast has disaster written all over it. Add in that she is your roommate and her sister is also your roommate and likes you? Brutal.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

....you guys I ended that one relationship....if you read it...


But,...I live with two very cute very different sisters.
And as you know... When you live with girls, one has to be polite.


Point is... I'm catching feelings, the other already came to my bed and the other is catching feelings....

I don't want to do anything bad.
I will follow my heart.

But I need ideas as to how move things along.

I already go to the movies and shyt with both of them...as to keep it casual... They both know I'm not hugging either one of them.


But I need hugs too.


I live with these girls.
They both make me laugh.
I don't want to move out because I like it here.

We play cards and literally live together like....we cook and eat together.
The mom is super cool. God bless her.

But I know one or both of them is looking at me.
Me too though.

Yo seriously....I find myself in my bed alone waiting for her to come to my bed again.

As others have stated, you just came out of a LTR, you wouln't want to commit or settle, yet.

Lastly, why are you eating where you s**t?

Modern Man Advice

 

[_sideways_]

Guys....
I'm being spoon fed....
Wtf....

 

[Georgepithyou]

Am i the only one that thinks OP and Westinlover are trolls?

 

[_sideways_]

As others have stated, you just came out of a LTR, you wouln't want to commit or settle, yet.

Lastly, why are you eating where you s**t?

Modern Man Advice

What does one relationship have to do with another?
Who said I was in a LTR as you put it....?
Long term?


Fvcking three months is not long term bro.
And even if it was...I like this one better

 

[Modern Man Advice]

What does one relationship have to do with another?
Who said I was in a LTR as you put it....?
Long term?


Fvcking three months is not long term bro.
And even if it was...I like this one better

They have you in common. That's what one relationship has to do with the other.

No one did. We perhaps wrongly assumed. Whenever someone on this forum says they are in a relationship, we assume it is a LTR (Long-term relationship). Even if it was 2 or 3 months, it is still a commitment you have made to that person.

And no one is saying don't jump on another relationship right away. At least, I did not. I said, "you wouldn't". Meaning, if I was you (and I'm 34 yrs, have been married, had several serious LTR, and made many, many, many mistakes) I personally wouldn't.

Being single and alone is a blessing. Not saying this is you, but many men (or people for that matter) jump into relationships for the fear of being alone and/or enjoy companionship. In my experience, many people (especially youngsters) are in relationships fr the wrong reasons.

At the end of the day, I know men learn by doing. So you do what you must do. Perhaps, this will be a good learning opportunity. But I take you come here to learn from others with more experience that have walked this path before and are ahead of you. And almost everyone is saying it is not a good idea.

This is especially true as it sounds (and correct me if I am wrong) you live with them. Not sure what the living setup is, but just like work you NEVER want to mess or get involved with someone you live with. This is a rookie move. But again, you do what you must do.

Hope everything works out.

Modern Man Advice

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No....I want to commit to the one.
But maybe she doesn't.

Why do you want to play the female role? You will ruin this with this lack mindset

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Guys....
I'm being spoon fed....
Wtf....

Because you are making basic mistakes, so you are being given baby food.

 

[_sideways_]

Thanks for the reality check.... especially modern man advice.


I am just still high on the fact that it was or is kinda cool that these girls like me enough to treat me better than most girls treat their boyfriends. I mean, they bring me breakfast lunch and dinner to my bed....and with a smile too.
...and another thing...that one sister gave me a feet massage....in the living room...in front of everyone....yo, that was nice.

I'm not a player by any means....
It's just hard to not catch feelings when I'm being treated like I'm worth something