A girl who we were on the verge of becoming serious together.
I usually never resort to blocking unless it becomes a case of that person is starting to interfere with my happiness and self respect.
First off she is my type physically like perfect what im always looking for. Perfect figure and ass. Dark complexion long dark hair very attractive girl like a swimsuit model. A legit HB9 looks wise to me. These types consistently are always bat**** crazy though in my experience. The ones with the perfect bodies and just get a **** tonne of male attention everywhere they go.
So i let the first few red flags go. Our first argument was over the notion that i dont text enough so it means im just using her for sex nothing else she claimed. So she basically issued an ultimatum that time one that any other woman i would have called her bluff and said okay beat it.
Things got better after and the sex was really good. Makeup sex ect.
Then she got upset a few days later claimed i raised my voice at her in her car. No actually i never did. She is beyond overly sensitive and insecure and has admitted this many times. Again i make the mistake of supplicating and telling her to stay with me that night.
So fast forward a few meetings later she says she is completely falling for me and it is terrifying her but now she trusts me so she can relax.
She randomly starts ordering me uber eats gifts 2 days in a row and initiates texts more. Everything is better seemingly but in the back of my mind i know the red flags and know that it is just a ticking tine bomb with her.
So last night she is late because her friend she hasnt seen in over a year comes to visit her comes over and she comes here to visit me late with a vad attitude in general.
So i overlook it we have sex we both ***. Then we are talking and i said something that triggered an insecurity i guess because she becomes very silent out of nowhere and pouty acting. So i get up to wash and walk her out to her car. So i feel awkwsrd tension because she us being so quiet. So i just kiss her on the cheek and tell her to get home safely.
So she freaks out and says you are just going to pat me on the head and barely kiss me. She starts huffing and puffing visibly upset so i say wait are u serious? What are you mad about this time? Why are you upset i had no bad intentions.
She says no no while like crying halfway....everything is okay. You cant even give me a proper kiss goodbye so i say you are always upset about something i was just giving you space and it doesnt mean anything bad like that kissing you on the cheek.
So anyways i try to leave it on good turns and kiss her but she refuses and is just acting like a pouty little baby in general trying to leave me hanging feeling bad like she has already done twice now.
It is extremely emotionally manipulative. This is the first woman i have tried to take somewhat serious in well over a year and my last girlfriend was super cool and chill. Never pulled BS drama like this.
So enough is enough i decided. I don't think any amount of talking will fix this and if i cater to her anymore i would lose a lot of self dignity i feel. So the only thing i can think if is just to get her out of my life completely. Got too invested and it backfired. Now is just time to move on.
Also, I was just thinking to myself last night why are you trying so hard for this one crazy chick? Her entire personality is one big buzz kill it seems. She genuinely seems like a very miserable unhappy individual. And her unhappiness has made ne unhappy since getting more deeply intertwined with her. It is very toxic feeling.
And i have 2 solid plates ready to go that i have been neglecting for her.
Anyways, i am just putting this out there for anyone else who us going through something similiar. It is not worth losing your happiness and dignity over no matter how much you are attracted to one of them.
I usually never resort to blocking unless it becomes a case of that person is starting to interfere with my happiness and self respect.
First off she is my type physically like perfect what im always looking for. Perfect figure and ass. Dark complexion long dark hair very attractive girl like a swimsuit model. A legit HB9 looks wise to me. These types consistently are always bat**** crazy though in my experience. The ones with the perfect bodies and just get a **** tonne of male attention everywhere they go.
So i let the first few red flags go. Our first argument was over the notion that i dont text enough so it means im just using her for sex nothing else she claimed. So she basically issued an ultimatum that time one that any other woman i would have called her bluff and said okay beat it.
Things got better after and the sex was really good. Makeup sex ect.
Then she got upset a few days later claimed i raised my voice at her in her car. No actually i never did. She is beyond overly sensitive and insecure and has admitted this many times. Again i make the mistake of supplicating and telling her to stay with me that night.
So fast forward a few meetings later she says she is completely falling for me and it is terrifying her but now she trusts me so she can relax.
She randomly starts ordering me uber eats gifts 2 days in a row and initiates texts more. Everything is better seemingly but in the back of my mind i know the red flags and know that it is just a ticking tine bomb with her.
So last night she is late because her friend she hasnt seen in over a year comes to visit her comes over and she comes here to visit me late with a vad attitude in general.
So i overlook it we have sex we both ***. Then we are talking and i said something that triggered an insecurity i guess because she becomes very silent out of nowhere and pouty acting. So i get up to wash and walk her out to her car. So i feel awkwsrd tension because she us being so quiet. So i just kiss her on the cheek and tell her to get home safely.
So she freaks out and says you are just going to pat me on the head and barely kiss me. She starts huffing and puffing visibly upset so i say wait are u serious? What are you mad about this time? Why are you upset i had no bad intentions.
She says no no while like crying halfway....everything is okay. You cant even give me a proper kiss goodbye so i say you are always upset about something i was just giving you space and it doesnt mean anything bad like that kissing you on the cheek.
So anyways i try to leave it on good turns and kiss her but she refuses and is just acting like a pouty little baby in general trying to leave me hanging feeling bad like she has already done twice now.
It is extremely emotionally manipulative. This is the first woman i have tried to take somewhat serious in well over a year and my last girlfriend was super cool and chill. Never pulled BS drama like this.
So enough is enough i decided. I don't think any amount of talking will fix this and if i cater to her anymore i would lose a lot of self dignity i feel. So the only thing i can think if is just to get her out of my life completely. Got too invested and it backfired. Now is just time to move on.
Also, I was just thinking to myself last night why are you trying so hard for this one crazy chick? Her entire personality is one big buzz kill it seems. She genuinely seems like a very miserable unhappy individual. And her unhappiness has made ne unhappy since getting more deeply intertwined with her. It is very toxic feeling.
And i have 2 solid plates ready to go that i have been neglecting for her.
Anyways, i am just putting this out there for anyone else who us going through something similiar. It is not worth losing your happiness and dignity over no matter how much you are attracted to one of them.
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