"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Social Media and Mental Health

Georgepithyou

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Has anyone successfully quit from Social Media? Facebook,insta,tik tok and snapchat?

I managed to give it up for a long time but have gone back to instagram, I keep getting FOMO whenever I'm off it.

I know I could use it positively for buisness in the future but i always end up spending hours browsing random garbage on it.

Has anyone successfully quit Social media for good? If so how did you do it and do you notice your mental health has improved?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hoodie

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Has anyone successfully quit from Social Media? Facebook,insta,tik tok and snapchat?

I managed to give it up for a long time but have gone back to instagram, I keep getting FOMO whenever I'm off it.

I know I could use it positively for buisness in the future but i always end up spending hours browsing random garbage on it.

Has anyone successfully quit Social media for good? If so how did you do it and do you notice your mental health has improved?
My opinion is that checking up on friends activity is positive (If I don't I also get fomo). Using it to scroll through random posts is negative and should be avoided.
I don't use Tik tok, as none of my friends post anything there, only instagram and facebook. I also like to see the post of other people I follow that aren't necessarily my friends, but they post quality content, like something relating to health and fitness or other hobbies.
 

Machine10033

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I’ve never had social media and it’s a world of stressors I will never know. If I had it... and wanted to give it up I would think the best way might be to burn the bridges and boats. Just delete it all.... no going back.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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I've given up Facebook for better or worse, still use Instagram but it gets an hour of my time every couple days, when I was building a following it was content every day
 
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