Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Let me get this straight, one if your coworkers has already stood up for you to your job superior and now you want to know if you should b|tch at the superior also ?
The trainer is not a superior to me in terms of how we classify jobs at where im at. He is equal to me. My coworker confronted the trainer once and the trainer still shows me disrespect in how he talks to me. I have some days coming up in which it will just be me and the trainer working one on one. I basically wanna know how I should handle this when it comes up again. I can pretty much guarantee he will continue raising his voice with me. My coworkers talk with him didnt change the situation.
My qualifications actually outrank my trainer but I am not a superior to him. He is just basically showing me the ropes.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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