What to do with the family members

[mrgoodstuff]

Man you need to get out of this Victim Mentaltiy immediately.. this s.hit will kill you. This is something that is hard for me to get into because it would cause me to write a ton and go back and forth with you but..

what you're exhibiting is Victim mentality. and it definitely does have stuff to do with people treating u wrong in the past -- but the past is the past.. you need to kill this style of thinking, and ASAP as it can be very damaging to yourself.

As a man you are in control of your circumstances, your emotions and your actions/choices. Don't settle for less and start taking responsibility for how you feel and how you react to things.

"Victim mentality" results in the "self fulfilling phophecy". As long as we are in the mindset, more of the same will continue in new situations and circumstances. You literally will be attracting the same situations.

 

[Stephen89]

Thank you very much for your words and suggestions guys, I really appreciate it.

I have cut then out and living my own life now, with positive people and doing the things I want to do and what makes me happy.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Thank you very much for your words and suggestions guys, I really appreciate it.

I have cut then out and living my own life now, with positive people and doing the things I want to do and what makes me happy.

Awesome, good to hear that mate.
Good speed and may things go in the direction you wish.