“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women win through emotion.

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All of men’s problems with women come from their emotions.

Since women cannot overpower men physically, they have to resort to other tactics to even the playing field. These tactics are emotional. A woman will constantly threaten, berate and abuse a man emotionally until she gets what she wants or has power over him. She will cause drama, yell and scream, withhold sex, anything to make him believe she is “special“ and he better fall in line or else he will lose her. If men keep their emotions in check and think logically, they will win the game and defeat women. It’s all emotions that get men in trouble, it’s all emotions that makes men get jealous, it’s all emotions that make men do things that are not good for them.

Now since a woman‘s emotions are her weapon of choice, or only weapon I should say, and emotions .change from one hour to the next, it causes women to be manipulative, always play the victim, and not be honest. They can‘t afford to be honest. They would lose the fight if they were honest. It’s like a man wanting to win a fight without ever working out. Wouldn’t work.

Notice our relationships with our guy friends are never really emotional? If you get into a fight, you swear at him and call him the next day, move on. Yet with a woman, she will make you *feel* it for days, if not weeks or months. Her emotions is the only thing she has, and she will milk for all its worth.

So men, emotions in check at all times. Be strong.
 

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All of men’s problems with women come from their emotions.

Since women cannot overpower men physically, they have to resort to other tactics to even the playing field. These tactics are emotional. A woman will constantly threaten, berate and abuse a man emotionally until she gets what she wants or has power over him. She will cause drama, yell and scream, withhold sex, anything to make him believe she is “special“ and he better fall in line or else he will lose her. If men keep their emotions in check and think logically, they will win the game and defeat women. It’s all emotions that get men in trouble, it’s all emotions that makes men get jealous, it’s all emotions that make men do things that are not good for them.

Now since a woman‘s emotions are her weapon of choice, or only weapon I should say, and emotions .change from one hour to the next, it causes women to be manipulative, always play the victim, and not be honest. They can‘t afford to be honest. They would lose the fight if they were honest. It’s like a man wanting to win a fight without ever working out. Wouldn’t work.

Notice our relationships with our guy friends are never really emotional? If you get into a fight, you swear at him and call him the next day, move on. Yet with a woman, she will make you *feel* it for days, if not weeks or months. Her emotions is the only thing she has, and she will milk for all its worth.

So men, emotions in check at all times. Be strong.
Agree with most of what you say. Except you will never win through being logical with women. Logic will never change how they feel no matter if it is air tight or not. Despite that, I usually try to calmly explain my position once with a woman. If she still will not accept my position on the matter and I feel that she is being unfair with her emotions (which typically is the case 99% of the time since there is almost never a cogent reason for them feeling the way they do), then the next step is to just walk away and refuse to engage. If she continues with the emotional blackmail, the last resort is that you leave altogether and end the relationship (whether it is a plate, LTR, etc.). This is where your power comes from.
 

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Rian stone has this series where he covers the Practical Female Psychology book (South is one of the authors).

In any event in one of the videos i listened to yesterday, he compared Women in STEM majors (Science minded women) who seem to be more calm and less emotional to other women. He kind of linked a high variability in womens emotions with sex drive. The more dramatic and emotional, the more sexual they are.

I don't know if i totally agree, but we probably all have had that crazy emotional party girl that was great for sex, but too much of a headached to be around. Then the smarter, calmer woman was easier to live with but less sexual.
 

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Avoid emotional decision making... true with women... true with everything. Anytime you are about to buy something that 'you love', ask yourself "Why do I love this?". It's okay to buy something you love, but you also have to make sure that what you are buying is going to meet your short/long term needs. This requires rational evaluation.... The older you get, the easier this is to do because you gain wisdom based on life experience.

The key for young dudes that are just starting to date is for them to learn from the mistakes of others, be selfish and you will be fine. Women will get p1ssed off and 'hate' men that are selfish... but this is because these men are immune to her emotional machinations. But men that are easy to manipulate are not respected, so they are really nothing to her. It is better that she hates you than than if you are nothing to her.
 

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Calmly explaining is still trying to "logic" with her. Just stare her directly in the eyes and simply say "No."

"what do you mean?" she says.

"No" you say.

"What do you mean No?" she says

"Don't ask Daddy to repeat himself. Now go make Daddy a sandwich" You say
I agree. Hence why I started that next sentence "despite that." I actually do it more for myself so I can say I gave her a chance to listen to reason (even though I know that this alone will likely not change her behavior).
 

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All of men’s problems with women come from their emotions.

Since women cannot overpower men physically, they have to resort to other tactics to even the playing field. These tactics are emotional. A woman will constantly threaten, berate and abuse a man emotionally until she gets what she wants or has power over him. She will cause drama, yell and scream, withhold sex, anything to make him believe she is “special“ and he better fall in line or else he will lose her. If men keep their emotions in check and think logically, they will win the game and defeat women. It’s all emotions that get men in trouble, it’s all emotions that makes men get jealous, it’s all emotions that make men do things that are not good for them.

Now since a woman‘s emotions are her weapon of choice, or only weapon I should say, and emotions .change from one hour to the next, it causes women to be manipulative, always play the victim, and not be honest. They can‘t afford to be honest. They would lose the fight if they were honest. It’s like a man wanting to win a fight without ever working out. Wouldn’t work.

Notice our relationships with our guy friends are never really emotional? If you get into a fight, you swear at him and call him the next day, move on. Yet with a woman, she will make you *feel* it for days, if not weeks or months. Her emotions is the only thing she has, and she will milk for all its worth.

So men, emotions in check at all times. Be strong.
Is it always a fight?
 

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Calmly explaining is still trying to "logic" with her. Just stare her directly in the eyes and simply say "No."

"what do you mean?" she says.

"No" you say.

"What do you mean No?" she says

"Don't ask Daddy to repeat himself. Now go make Daddy a sandwich" You say
"Now go make daddy a sandwich" might be overdoing it but the rest is actual facts. I either say no or just start making fun of my gf when she's being irrational. Key is to not engage. And as RangerMike said, if they 'hate' you that's actually good. My girlfriend hates me at times but she always comes back. Fully ready for my man Pan to call me a beta because I'm in an LTR though.
 

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...Women in STEM majors (Science minded women) who seem to be more calm and less emotional to other women. He kind of linked a high variability in womens emotions with sex drive. The more dramatic and emotional, the more sexual they are.
This is true in my experience. I stay away from high drama women because don't stick your d!ck in crazy. My girlfirend is very smart and a feminist, but she's actually for equality and doesn't subscribe to victimhood on a personal level. She's also interested in fairness and I've never had her berate me or scream at me, and when she does bug me or nag me about things, she usually has a valid point. I don't even need to say no to her to shut her down, if she crosses the line all it takes is one look from me to let her know that she's making me want to walk.

The only time she raises her voice is when she starts talking about politics, where she is unfortunatel still an NPC. Not to derail this into politics, but if you substitute women with feminism in general in the OP, it's still entirely valid. Same for all others who subscribe to a victim mentality, it's all about feels and deflecting logic.
 

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This is true in my experience. I stay away from high drama women because don't stick your d!ck in crazy. My girlfirend is very smart and a feminist, but she's actually for equality and doesn't subscribe to victimhood on a personal level. She's also interested in fairness and I've never had her berate me or scream at me, and when she does bug me or nag me about things, she usually has a valid point. I don't even need to say no to her to shut her down, if she crosses the line all it takes is one look from me to let her know that she's making me want to walk.

The only time she raises her voice is when she starts talking about politics, where she is unfortunatel still an NPC. Not to derail this into politics, but if you substitute women with feminism in general in the OP, it's still entirely valid. Same for all others who subscribe to a victim mentality, it's all about feels and deflecting logic.
Women ARE feminism. All of them. Doesn't matter what logic they may have or how man-like they are, they are feminism in nature. That is the greatest trick ever done is telling us that feminism and women are separate.

Everything about feminism is female. And all females are feminists. EE women act just as much of a fool as a party blonde. I've seen it personally since I come from that field. I know what women have done to their bfs. You cannot tell them apart from other women. They are all the same. ALL! Remember that!
 

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Women ARE feminism. All of them. Doesn't matter what logic they may have or how man-like they are, they are feminism in nature. That is the greatest trick ever done is telling us that feminism and women are separate.

Everything about feminism is female. And all females are feminists. EE women act just as much of a fool as a party blonde. I've seen it personally since I come from that field. I know what women have done to their bfs. You cannot tell them apart from other women. They are all the same. ALL! Remember that!
No.

Feminism is not a binary. A suffragette is not the same thing as a radical feminist land whale that walks around naked for the sake of "empowerment". One was asking for equality, the other lives in a delusion.

I know women who scoff at modern feminism because they like being feminine and accept reality, aka men and women are different.
 

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OP don’t believe everything you read on the forums. The real world is completely different and I will give you an example.

There are tons of guys that never act jealous, maintain frame, and give their girlfriends all the freedom in the world because they know they are high value....and Guess what they still get cheated on. I know so because I’ve ****ed women with high value boyfriends.

On the other end of the spectrum, there are also guys that are possessive and psycho that keep their chicks loyal. The same guys on Don Juan we would call insecure and clingy.

My point is that keeping your emotions in check will generally allow you to make logical choices.L but at the end of the day every woman is different. Every girl that any guy on this forum is dating or banging is different than yours or mine or the next. As a man all you can do is constantly improve yourself, stay logical, and have fun. If your having fun with the girl that’s all that matters. Going into the dating scene with the mindset that there are a million hot women out there will just allow you to maintain frame better, but it won’t make you immune to a woman’s bull****. There are honest good hearted women and there are lying hoes, you never really know
 

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No.

Feminism is not a binary. A suffragette is not the same thing as a radical feminist land whale that walks around naked for the sake of "empowerment". One was asking for equality, the other lives in a delusion.

I know women who scoff at modern feminism because they like being feminine and accept reality, aka men and women are different.
"A suffragette is not the same thing as a radical feminist land whale"

Yes they are. The former will not give up the privileges afforded to her by the feminist agenda. Ever.

Tell the suffragette to submit to a man, and watch her cringe up just as much as the radical land whale does. Those women you speak of who scoff at modern feminism are lying to you. They are ever part of the system as the radical ones because they are female. Again, tell any of these women to become only second to you, tell them that they cannot speak unless spoken to, and tell them that they are to be a housewife following your orders. And you'll see their true colors.
 

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I think the real problem is when conflicts arise. Women don't deal with conflict well and they often escalate things emotionally, then both parties need to withdraw to their corners.

I'm having marital issues that in a logic based world would have been solved in an afternoon. My wife's emotions took over and then a chain reaction of every resentment cluster bombed our relationship. She took it to the next level by starting an emotional affair. In a logical world she wouldn't have risked our marriage especially for someone with a much lower SMV than mine.

Now we have retreated to both of our corners. She finally got another job and is busy again. If i wasn't so logic based and was emotion based right now, i'd probably be living in Columbia with a different woman and had left my family behind. I could never do that as i love my daughter and wife still.
 

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Good post but you made it seem like all women do this and always maliciously.. The women who do this sh.t are insecure af. Confident women don't need to do this. and if they do stuff like emotional tests, they aren't necessarily doing it maliciously... Regardless, emotional sh.t is definitely a womans playing field.
 
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