"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I’ll give you an example. I don’t have a foot fetish but I need a girl to have pretty feet, just says a lot about how they take care of themselves. Well with old women they’re like “eww I hate feet, you have a foot fetish, ewww” while bragging on how much they spend on shoes and pedicures and stuff. A younger woman is like “foot fetish? Hey we like what we like. I’m open to giving you a foot job sometime if you want me to, if that’ll make you happy”. See the difference? Old women are BORING but pretend to be so much fun and great in the sack. They aren’t, it’s a lie. Hell I was watching tv while an old 35 yr old broad was giving me a *******, the tv was way more interesting. And she was always bragging about her bj skills but man was she overrated.
Like how many hours you do with her compared to the old hag?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Like how many hours you do with her compared to the old hag?
Oh if she’s 29 or younger I’ll absolutely take her on a traditional date. The older women I don’t even try, if they suggest dinner or anything I bluntly say absolutely not. They aren’t worth it. I’ll make my schedule work for a younger woman. Not to be too available but available enough.
 

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Oh if she’s 29 or younger I’ll absolutely take her on a traditional date. The older women I don’t even try, if they suggest dinner or anything I bluntly say absolutely not. They aren’t worth it. I’ll make my schedule work for a younger woman. Not to be too available but available enough.
It does sounds good to be in relationships again.. Well it does even worth it if both make it works and walk the talks.. The one who bragging about it doesnt seems quite delivered in your elationship with older women.. Boy theres lot to learn. Thanks man.
 

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It does sounds good to be in relationships again.. Well it does even worth it if both make it works and walk the talks.. The one who bragging about it doesnt seems quite delivered in your elationship with older women.. Boy theres lot to learn. Thanks man.
This is just my experience but when I did online dating, I had a 10% success rate with women 30+. Meaning I got more than one date with them. They would match with you more easily, they were easy to talk to BUT they’d also ghost you or weren’t interested in seeing you again after the first date. Younger women, my experience was they were more rare to match with you, it was harder to make conversation with them BUT if you could get them out your chances of seeing them again were 50%.
 

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This is just my experience but when I did online dating, I had a 10% success rate with women 30+. Meaning I got more than one date with them. They would match with you more easily, they were easy to talk to BUT they’d also ghost you or weren’t interested in seeing you again after the first date. Younger women, my experience was they were more rare to match with you, it was harder to make conversation with them BUT if you could get them out your chances of seeing them again were 50%.
Well i dont do onlinw dating anymore since 2004. I just match on tinder for fun.. Then ill unmatch them or make them thinks im all about sex.. So theyll get the idea and get out.these are the 30++ women.. Maybe its true what you said about them that i can sense it too theyre damage good thus i cant never accept them.. It felt so good when youre in control of everything that you doesnt even need someone else.. But who i am to hold all that excitement for myself.. Will try out the younger girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boredom made me doing this and the result were unbelievable..

1 tinder acc made my age 41

2nd tinder account put at my age 25

On both account i filtered to swipe on 30-40 yrs age of women..

Shockingly 1st tinder account didnt get much women to swipe on and they all somewhat unattractive / fat.

On 2nd tinder account which i put my age 25 yrs.. Theres a lot.. I means a lot of it!! of attractive middle age women looking for younger kok..

Mind you im doing this on full lockdown period in my country..

Attractive middle age women still getting / wanted D from young attractive men...

When their CC Will ever end??
I think this shows how Tinder and other swiping apps are only really used by leftover women and those with "special needs", i.e. some kind of angle. Normal women just don't need it.

Maybe one day they'll make an app for men to find women that want to waste their time and spend their money.
 

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I think this shows how Tinder and other swiping apps are only really used by leftover women and those with "special needs", i.e. some kind of angle. Normal women just don't need it.

Maybe one day they'll make an app for men to find women that want to waste their time and spend their money.
Theres a lot to say about the scenario.. Its totally useless for established men.
 

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Theres a lot to say about the scenario.. Its totally useless for established men.
you can still be lucky and find quality women on swiping apps , but this happens quite rarely

usually this women are active only for a couple of days , are a bit older and are there mainly out of curiosity . So the hook has to be strong in order to get Them
 

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you can still be lucky and find quality women on swiping apps , but this happens quite rarely

usually this women are active only for a couple of days , are a bit older and are there mainly out of curiosity . So the hook has to be strong in order to get Them
How do you know so much about quality women? Only high calibre men will know.. Or you may be friend to one of them?
 

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I get a like from 22 years 7/10 girl.today. Not interested to engage. Man i become so lazy lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How do you know so much about quality women? Only high calibre men will know.. Or you may be friend to one of them?
I am quite ok :)

women say that I am handsome , and financially I would say that I am in the top 25% easily

but overall , I would say that I am more of a Philosopher and like to do a lot of Social experiments to better understand the world that I am part of
 

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I get a like from 22 years 7/10 girl.today. Not interested to engage. Man i become so lazy lol
doing a hair transplant was a smart move

boldness is attributed to old age and being chronically sick ( thyroid , prostrate , lack of quality food , etc )

being old or sick mainly means that you are weak and lack vigor

that is why it is important to take care of your hair , and if indeed things are really grim to the male pattern baldness , to start working out a lot so your body will show vigor
 

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I am quite ok :)

women say that I am handsome , and financially I would say that I am in the top 25% easily

but overall , I would say that I am more of a Philosopher and like to do a lot of Social experiments to better understand the world that I am part of
Obsessed about life are one of an alphas trait.. Good for you bro
 

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doing a hair transplant was a smart move

boldness is attributed to old age and being chronically sick ( thyroid , prostrate , lack of quality food , etc )

being old or sick mainly means that you are weak and lack of vigor

that is why it is important to take care of your hair , and if indeed things are really grim to the male pattern baldness , to start working out a lot so your body will show vigor
Indeed.. Male pattern were result from dht testorone overload..yeah so it could contribute to those problem you mention.. I workout daily.. In great shape 6'1 92kg mass muscle.. Honestly i dont gave damn about my hair since i was young.. Im more of outgoing guy than a pretty boy.. Musculinity runs on my blood.. When i get older i become more aware of my physics.. It needs some care and been lots of abused.. Lol.
 

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Boredom made me doing this and the result were unbelievable..

1 tinder acc made my age 41

2nd tinder account put at my age 25

On both account i filtered to swipe on 30-40 yrs age of women..

Shockingly 1st tinder account didnt get much women to swipe on and they all somewhat unattractive / fat.

On 2nd tinder account which i put my age 25 yrs.. Theres a lot.. I means a lot of it!! of attractive middle age women looking for younger kok..

Mind you im doing this on full lockdown period in my country..

Attractive middle age women still getting / wanted D from young attractive men...

When their CC Will ever end??
In my late 30's, I dated several very attractive women that were older than me. I asked everyone of them why they didn't date men their age or older. They all said because men their their age or older weren't in good shape.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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