"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been trying prone masturbation since the age of 14. do you guys think it will effect my sexuality and how was your experience with it. did it effect your sexuality in any negative way?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you watching porn while doing it? If so quit now. Porn is toxic for the mind and long term use will give you porn induced erectile dysfunction. I am a former porn addict and experienced this first hand.
 

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Masturbation is fine in moderation. As long as it's not interfering with your daily activities, nothing is wrong with it. There is one positive from frequent masturbation; it can help lessen or reduce the possibility of prostate cancer.
 
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Masturbation is fine in moderation. As long as it's not interfering with your daily activities, nothing is wrong with it. There is one positive from frequent masturbation; it can help lessen or reduce the possibility of prostate cancer.
I am talking about prone masturbation. masturbation in prone position specifically
 

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You are the dude that went with the cheap 30 year old hor and said he's looking for a more expensive hor, so you started 2 years ago.

Yeah, I've looked this up and know about this type of fapping, and have interesting results:

1) If the sex-fantasy is with hookers or paid for sex transaction: It's fun.

2) If the sex-fantasy is with civvies, women I like in public, etc....: My jaws lock and I can't open my mouth without excruciating pain. It's like someone punched me in the mouth for doing that to them, lol!

My face is facing down on the pillow both times and how the nerves and the jaws work I guess are different depending on the sex-fantasy involved.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No porn and no masturbation is better for you being a seducer of women.
They say not having a release as a man does not raise your testosterone significantly but a month without a nut leaves a guy feeling 10 feet tall and bulletproof
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No porn and no masturbation is better for you being a seducer of women.
He is in a sewage infested third world country. I would not think about seducing anyone if I lived in a filthy country like that. The woman may not even use toilet paper and dump on the streets.
 

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Monkeys don't spank themselves.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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