Do you guys think a 40 year old can get with a woman in her 20s?

[Poonstra]

It’s only in America where feminism has made it look bad.

You should visit NW-Europe, Sh!t's pretty bad here.

 

[f283000]

You should visit NW-Europe, Sh!t's pretty bad here.

Yeah I meant America/western countries.

but in Asia/Latin America/Africa/Middle East it’s common for women to marry older as they are often taught to look for an older man for security

In America and western countries they don’t have to since women make their own money.

and before anyone says anything there’s a difference between this and pulling a girl due to your money as OP says.

 

[f(x)]

Are they in their 20's as the question asks?

I should offer some context: I take classes at a small university that has about a 60/40 female to male ratio. In this environment I would say it is possible.

My 20-something math tutor (petite Latina) would ask what Netflix shows I watch and hinted that she wanted to blow me, but after I told her I was 40 she kind of freaked out and exclaimed “I thought you were like 27 or something!” and became distant. There was an attractive graduate teaching assistant (tall Caucasian) who literally, while on her knees offered to help me write a paper. I caught her staring at the library one day as well.

It was not uncommon for young women to show interest, then disbelief that I’m older than I look.

A lot of them seem to know who I am and I could hear them giggle and talk about me as I passed them in the library, etc. Some of them refer to me as “Daddy.” I worked out at the school gym and would catch young women checking me out all the time.

A lot of these girls are away from home and are not all connected to the social scene. I see them eating lunch or studying alone all the time. Some of them don’t have cars. I almost never get shut down when trying to initiate a conversation.

I have avoided opportunities to escalate countless times, primarily because I got spooked by “#metoo” and I think my game isn’t as strong as it could be.

In short, I have not YET pulled a 20 year old in my 40s, but if there is one place where it could occur it is the American college campus. Everything was online last year, but this fall should be on campus.

It’s frustrating to look back and recognize missed opportunity, but with work, school, and fitness demands, I just can’t be bothered. Also, the novelty kind of wears off once you actually have to engage them in conversation.

There is a lot of detail I am skipping, but I want to develop this as an option and practice. I welcome your comments and if you have any other questions, please ask.

 

[dasein]

When in my mid 40s, no problem at all. 5 11, 33 in waist, 44 chest, 180ish lbs, good but not model face, excellent people/game skills and good social proof, 23-30ish, 6-8s then sure.

About to get back into dating in mid 50s, 30 in waist, 44 chest still, much lower BF at 160 pounds, mostly gray with some pepper, hair still full, getting eye-fcked constantly by 20 somethings everywhere I go. Getting ready for some fun on the "new" dating apps, was mostly on Match in the past.

It is a matter of genetics, diet, exercise and life habits. GET RID OF ALCOHOL AND TOBACCO first, then look into the newer life extension science.

 

[Epicwinguy]

He needs a six figure income and low body fat percentage, but it’s doable.