Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Again. What's the rush? Sex happening immediately is of no basis to how good the relationship will be. In fact, I would bet most of the worst relationships people have been in are the ones where they had sex on the first date.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How have you not lost the plot? Thats too long for a dry spell
How dare you insult my relationship!
That's awesome! But I would bet most aren't like that
Are you within top 10% of guys in your area
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Nope. That is irrelevant
Having had a similar hiatus myself, I can honestly say that with all the other BS going on in my
Day game is not easy. There is a reason why most men don't do it. Most men don't have the ability to cold approach when sober. Additionally, day game involves a lot of lingering and looking for opportunities. More of day game is assessing your surroundings and looking for opportunities.
Not a whole lot. I think after my last relationship and ideologies being so polarized in the real world, it makes me extremely leery who I want to get intimate with. Yeah, to most on here that's a cop out excuse but I'm not exchanging my beliefs for temporary access to who-ha.
I'm not sure what you mean by "How have I not lost the plot" but it's not unusual for me to be on long dry spells. Before my first relationship after college, I had a dry spell that lasted four years. At the time, I was surrounded by women that I just didn't want to be around.
This is called rationalizing your position to yourself.
How did they find boyfriends? Just picked one of their hundreds of options.
I like in a big U.S. metro area. I've spent most of the last ~15 years in Top 15 U.S. metro areas. There are only a few cities in the United States where London Daygame Model street game is viable. Most of them are the older, denser Northeast and Midwest cities like New York, Boston, Philadelphia, and Chicago.
That precisely is the problem. By the time there is an approach opportunity, so much time has been spent lingering, you just don't feel like doing anything since you are already in a comfort zone by the time the opportunity comes up. In fact, security can start eyeing you and think you are up to something.
I've never had problems with security in doing grocery store and mall approaching. I have heard it can happen. I don't spend more than 1 hour in any grocery store in an approach session. Malls pre-pandemic were so crowded that most mall approachers could do their thing uninterrupted by security. Toronto might be a little different since it is a feminist/SJW nirvana with numerous white knight males succumbing to their desires.
What year did you do this pre-pandemic? I did it back in 2006 and did not have any problems with security. Its just allot of time lingering around and thinking of something clever enough to say if you do meet someone that way. This board had allot of "Boot Camp" threads where people would have these assignments each week (i.e. eye contact assignments, approach assignments, and eventually number close, I guess it was a baby step approach. The eye-contact challenge was to look at a woman to get eye-contact and see if you can hold it before she breaks it. Something like that. Hardly see these Boot Camp threads on here anymore...I guess they didn't work that well, or they did work, it worked before 2013/2015....don't know. Maybe there might be a resurgence of red-pill threads like that as people get more fed up with the depressing black-pill threads and pandemic social distancing.
