Been watching some of Mystery's stuff recently, just to get back to the basics.
His systematic approach to pickup is designed to tick all the boxes, which although contrived, makes a lot of things clear.
Two things I have learned.
1. Keep your social circle strong.
It will allow you to invite a girl over for any kind of gathering to which she can bring her friends, you can prove how trustworthy your friends are and establish rapport and comfort. Let a girl know you are sociable. This is helpful for indirect game and allows you to stall making your intentions clear, keeping her guessing.
2. DHV.
You must convey that you are happy and satisfied with your position and your trajectory in life. Stay focused on your goals, because not only will you reap the rewards later. Your ambition itself will convey to a girl that you are a person worth hanging around.
It's a shame we have to offer value in this world, but that is the world we live in. We have to convey value in the form of friendship and perseverence towards our higher goals.
Just thought I would say this, because I had been getting lazy with my goals. It is however true. We have to stick to our goals and work hard at them.
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3. Project enthusiasm.
If you are able to speak about anything with fascination and impart that fascination onto someone else, you will know that is one of the things that makes a person charismatic. Have a sense of wonder about the things in the world, and speak like you find things fascinating. This will make your personality addictive.
His systematic approach to pickup is designed to tick all the boxes, which although contrived, makes a lot of things clear.
Two things I have learned.
1. Keep your social circle strong.
It will allow you to invite a girl over for any kind of gathering to which she can bring her friends, you can prove how trustworthy your friends are and establish rapport and comfort. Let a girl know you are sociable. This is helpful for indirect game and allows you to stall making your intentions clear, keeping her guessing.
2. DHV.
You must convey that you are happy and satisfied with your position and your trajectory in life. Stay focused on your goals, because not only will you reap the rewards later. Your ambition itself will convey to a girl that you are a person worth hanging around.
It's a shame we have to offer value in this world, but that is the world we live in. We have to convey value in the form of friendship and perseverence towards our higher goals.
Just thought I would say this, because I had been getting lazy with my goals. It is however true. We have to stick to our goals and work hard at them.
Edit:
BONUS
3. Project enthusiasm.
If you are able to speak about anything with fascination and impart that fascination onto someone else, you will know that is one of the things that makes a person charismatic. Have a sense of wonder about the things in the world, and speak like you find things fascinating. This will make your personality addictive.
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