What To Do When She Is Genuinely Impressive?

[SargeMaximus]

So I've had this a lot over the years. And it always seems to happen when I'm trying to implement the pua tactics such as not being impressed or complimenting her right off the bat.

I should have saved the most recent online convo I had showing this, but basically I was talking to a girl who was telling me she has been playing pokemon go since it came out. And she got a sunburn the other day because she was playing it so long. She's a top tier player and since I'm a gamer, I respect anyone who can dedicate that much time to become an elite player.

So it was natural for me to be like "wow, that's impressive" I tried to taper it with things like "It's good to have a passion" hoping to get her asking for my passion and whatnot, but instead the convo just fell flat and I'm sure it's because I was impressed by her.

Keep in mind she responded to me with "hey hey babes" when I opened her so I think attraction was there initially. But this happens to me a lot. Girls have something that impresses me about them right off the bat so I turn out to be just another guy that is impressed with anything just because she has a pvssy (not the case for me but I know that's how she perceives it). Am I just supposed to fake being NOT inmpressed? What am I supposed to do in these situations?

 

[SargeMaximus]

This isnt important and doesn't matter and it's not something that you should spend a lot of time thinking about

Why? I’m losing girls because of this. Girls that were initially attracted

 

[zekko]

Playing Pokeman Go is impressive?
I know what you mean though. I guess PUAs would tell you to pretend to not be impressed, but that isn't being very authentic, is it?
Seems like a double edged sword.

 

[bat soup]

Why? I’m losing girls because of this. Girls that were initially attracted

Find a girl that is not a pro at Pokemon Go.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Playing Pokeman Go is impressive?
I know what you mean though. I guess PUAs would tell you to pretend to not be impressed, but that isn't being very authentic, is it?
Seems like a double edged sword.

This is my issue for sure. And yes it is if it’s her passion which it sounds like it is.

@bat soup I’m not even going to engage you in that. Take your judgement elsewhere

 

[Velasco]

" I tried to taper it with things like "It's good to have a passion" hoping to get her asking for my passion and whatnot, but instead the convo just fell flat

ok...she didn't ask. doesn't mean you can't go into it anyway. "like for me, I am this way with x. blah blah blah" then from there free associate and lead it towards sex talk.

 

[SargeMaximus]

ok...she didn't ask. doesn't mean you can't go into it anyway. "like for me, I am this way with x. blah blah blah" then from there free associate and lead it towards sex talk.

Awesome thank you

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

got to hide your interest level brother , sorry . i know it seems stupid.
everytime a woman see's im genuinely interested or impressed by her its a turn off unless her initial interest is VERY HIGH

 

[SargeMaximus]

got to hide your interest level brother , sorry . i know it seems stupid.
everytime a woman see's im genuinely interested or impressed by her its a turn off unless her initial interest is VERY HIGH

Yes but how to do this without coming across as disingenuine? I thought women can smell when a guy is being fake trying to woo her

 

[Velasco]

Yes but how to do this without coming across as disingenuine? I thought women can smell when a guy is being fake trying to woo her

from my experience, they can't smell it. girls are fake to each other all the time.

so for me i show interest in things that will allow them to talk more about it (think about when someone asks you questions about something your really interested in. you then start getting excited to share more about it, right?) so that i can set frames from it.

common ones are acting noticably interested in places she's traveled to (don't give a sht in reality, but traveling is a great subject to go into the things i want to talk about to turn her on), and sex experience she's had with other guys (for the same reason).

 

[SargeMaximus]

from my experience, they can't smell it. girls are fake to each other all the time.

so for me i show interest in things that will allow them to talk more about it (think about when someone asks you questions about something your really interested in. you then start getting excited to share more about it, right?) so that i can set frames from it.

common ones are acting noticably interested in places she's traveled to (don't give a sht in reality, but traveling is a great subject to go into the things i want to talk about to turn her on), and sex experience she's had with other guys (for the same reason).

Yea I’ve done the travel talk thing before. Very effective. Are you from the old NextASF? Definitely helped with banter. Would you go straight into travel talk? Like could I go straight into travel talk to set the frame early and skip the chit chat?

 

[Velasco]

Are you from the old NextASF?

ya

Would you go straight into travel talk? Like could I go straight into travel talk to set the frame early and skip the chit chat?

start with nationality. you can comment something about that. girl says she's swedish, i always mention my friend that lives there. mention some things about that place. i can show her my google maps to show that i know some cool spots in that area. some stories that my friend said about girls from that area, and ask her to confirm whether they are true or not. ask if she's visiting or lives here now. ask how the guys there differ from the city we are in now? ask her if she's been in other cities besides the one we are currently in or is this her first time visiting the country we find ourselves in. where is her dream destination that she hasn't visited yet. then ask why? easy tbh. from there its just listening to words and free assocating like i said, to talk about things that i know will turn her on.

 

[SargeMaximus]

ya

start with nationality. you can comment something about that. girl says she's swedish, i always mention my friend that lives there. mention some things about that place. i can show her my google maps to show that i know some cool spots in that area. some stories that my friend said about girls from that area, and ask her to confirm whether they are true or not. ask if she's visiting or lives here now. ask how the guys there differ from the city we are in now? ask her if she's been in other cities besides the one we are currently in or is this her first time visiting the country we find ourselves in. where is her dream destination that she hasn't visited yet. then ask why? easy tbh. from there its just listening to words and free assocating like i said, to talk about things that i know will turn her on.

Ok cool thanks but what if you haven’t traveled to where she’s talking about?

and then back to what you said about not being impressed and that women are not be able to smell it if I’m fake, what would you suggest I do when she’s mentioning things that would normally impress me or even things that wouldn’t but are her attempts at being impressive. Should I just swat it down with an insult or what?

 

[Velasco]

what if you haven’t traveled to where she’s talking about?

i talk about a girl that i've fcked that was also the same nationality. describe what she was like. wonder if all girls from there, are that way? leads her to talk about the girls from there. grab something she mentioned, and go into that. if you haven't fcked a girl from x nationality, then mention anything you know about that place (like a sterotypical joke about people from there).

what wouldyou suggest I do when she’s mentioning things that would normally impress me or even things that would t but are her attempts at being impressive

its fine. its showing her you guys value the same things. which is one of Cialdini's 6 principles of influence: the liking principle. i give high fives usually at them trying to impress me. makes them like me. and its not bad, just that sexual arousal is missing. needs to think your a cool relatable guy that she wants to fck.

 

[SargeMaximus]

i talk about a girl that i've fcked that was also the same nationality. describe what she was like. wonder if all girls from there, are that way? leads her to talk about the girls from there. grab something she mentioned, and go into that. if you haven't fcked a girl from x nationality, then mention anything you know about that place (like a sterotypical joke about people from there).

its fine. its showing her you guys value the same things. which is one of Cialdini's 6 principles of influence: the liking principle. i give high fives usually at them trying to impress me. makes them like me. and its not bad, just that sexual arousal is missing. needs to think your a cool relatable guy that she wants to fck.

Ok. I’ll work on this. Thank you so much.

 

[Chamber36]

Approach it as a challenge next time.

Outdo her.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Approach it as a challenge next time.

Outdo her.

Not my style.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So I've had this a lot over the years. And it always seems to happen when I'm trying to implement the pua tactics such as not being impressed or complimenting her right off the bat.

I should have saved the most recent online convo I had showing this, but basically I was talking to a girl who was telling me she has been playing pokemon go since it came out. And she got a sunburn the other day because she was playing it so long. She's a top tier player and since I'm a gamer, I respect anyone who can dedicate that much time to become an elite player.

So it was natural for me to be like "wow, that's impressive" I tried to taper it with things like "It's good to have a passion" hoping to get her asking for my passion and whatnot, but instead the convo just fell flat and I'm sure it's because I was impressed by her.

Keep in mind she responded to me with "hey hey babes" when I opened her so I think attraction was there initially. But this happens to me a lot. Girls have something that impresses me about them right off the bat so I turn out to be just another guy that is impressed with anything just because she has a pvssy (not the case for me but I know that's how she perceives it). Am I just supposed to fake being NOT inmpressed? What am I supposed to do in these situations?

No it's because you had a boring convo going and didn't engage her more. Or she simply wasn't that interested.

 

[SargeMaximus]

No it's because you had a boring convo going and didn't engage her more. Or she simply wasn't that interested.

That could be. Tbh convos bore me too. But I’m trying to do convos since being super sexual off the bat isn’t getting me the hotties. What do you suggest I do for convos?

 

[Chamber36]

Not my style.

Then tell her you have a gyarados in your pants