"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My confidence burned a 10/10 plate

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After being on one of the best hot streaks I’ve yet to experience I seemed to get a little ****y and it backfired. While I don’t consider myself good at all with relationships I consider my closing ability to be too of the game thanks to my good looks and psychopathic tendencies.

It’s Friday and I’m in a hurry as I have an 9 with a world class ass coming over to **** me that night. I walk into a liquor store to get the tequila for us and they have no tequila and there is a little gem in there. A 10/10 bartender...absolutely stunning.

The 10/10 dime yells out to me “can I help you?” I said yes. She helps me and I tell her “you can tell I’m not from here huh” she starts flirting with me a bit. goes to ring me up.

I call her over to help me again and walk to the back of the store, I lean in towards her and say can I get your number and She proceeds to give it to me. all of a sudden her manager comes in and says “everything ok here”... he was obviously jealous. but who cares I got the number.

now my style of texting has been to always be have fun with it and go by feel. I literally say whatever the hell is on my mind and it usually works. **** I triple texted the girl I’m banging now before I ever took her out.... the girl before that I double texted the **** out of........the girl before that I bought a $500 wallet before I ever even banged her and she ended up falling in love with me and we had amazing sex for years.

So anyways back to the dime bartender..
“You know I didn’t need that bottle of wine right? Your just my type I think you could tell”
”I want you badly”

now most guys would not ever send this to a chick but me I do not give a ****. Sure enough she responds

“haha I couldn’t tell”

me “can I see you Sunday”

her “possibly. I have a friend coming into town this weekend”


now I’m with my other chick so I don’t respond to the message for 24 hours. I sent her a text drunk saying

“I was thinking about you..” “I don’t mind if you have a girlfriend coming into town I’ll entertain you both you know I’m smooth like that. Lol I’m just trying to get to you”


Anyways nothing. I sent her a few other texts and nothing. Sent her another text asking her if she smokes and I could come over and chill with her.

Now granted she probably thinks I’m a ****y mother****er, but she knows how I look. And she knows by the things I’m asking her that I have banged a lot of women just as hot as her. So why isn’t she responding to me? Just seems strange. Very rarely have I had a lead that hot go cold over a ****y text.

Now I know where she works..I don’t like to lead with Money boys but I have in desperate situations and this is one of those. Thinking about pulling up in the new massereti In a week or two. Sending someone inside to bring her to me. That or should I walk back in there?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Also prefer the advise of only the experienced vets to help me here. I want her...surprised she’s not responding to my style of game it usually works with women of her caliber. Like I said women 9 and above don’t go cold over being too ****y in my experience.
 

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If you were as hot sh1t as you're claiming... You wouldn't care this much about her.

Without a pic, "HB9" means nothing.
lol life must be rough for you.

Here is one

1. you will never be me.
2. I have no benefit of lying
3. She’s a 10 and I’m not ****ing a 10. Of course I’m going to care. I don’t think you realize how hard it is to take down a 9 plus.
 

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Maybe she's not into the whole threesome thing you suggested?

Anyway, I'd go back in next week.

Keen observation: you grossly misspelled Maserati.
brother I was drunk it was a stupid text but I want her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol life must be rough for you.

Here is one

1. you will never be me.
2. I have no benefit of lying
3. She’s a 10 and I’m not ****ing a 10. Of course I’m going to care. I don’t think you realize how hard it is to take down a 9 plus.
You're weird.
 

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Super thirsty bra. Started off confident with the first two texts and but probs came off as a bit desperate with the others. Let's wait and see if she says anything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Neither are the fat Indian chicks you hang out with.

Tell me, do you just hitch 'em to the back of your truck when y'all go out, or....?
so again , what is the point of this comment ?

even though , I do not know what @Velasco is cooking up , I can say that he is a good seducer .This means that in the worst Case scenario he would sleep most of the times with at least average girls , and occasionally with some cave trolls ( we all been there )

to be frank ,going through your posts you kinda sound like the Indian race troll (or IRT ) that is infesting the seducers forums for a lot of years now
 

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After being on one of the best hot streaks I’ve yet to experience I seemed to get a little ****y and it backfired. While I don’t consider myself good at all with relationships I consider my closing ability to be too of the game thanks to my good looks and psychopathic tendencies.

It’s Friday and I’m in a hurry as I have an 9 with a world class ass coming over to **** me that night. I walk into a liquor store to get the tequila for us and they have no tequila and there is a little gem in there. A 10/10 bartender...absolutely stunning.

The 10/10 dime yells out to me “can I help you?” I said yes. She helps me and I tell her “you can tell I’m not from here huh” she starts flirting with me a bit. goes to ring me up.

I call her over to help me again and walk to the back of the store, I lean in towards her and say can I get your number and She proceeds to give it to me. all of a sudden her manager comes in and says “everything ok here”... he was obviously jealous. but who cares I got the number.

now my style of texting has been to always be have fun with it and go by feel. I literally say whatever the hell is on my mind and it usually works. **** I triple texted the girl I’m banging now before I ever took her out.... the girl before that I double texted the **** out of........the girl before that I bought a $500 wallet before I ever even banged her and she ended up falling in love with me and we had amazing sex for years.

So anyways back to the dime bartender..
“You know I didn’t need that bottle of wine right? Your just my type I think you could tell”
”I want you badly”

now most guys would not ever send this to a chick but me I do not give a ****. Sure enough she responds

“haha I couldn’t tell”

me “can I see you Sunday”

her “possibly. I have a friend coming into town this weekend”


now I’m with my other chick so I don’t respond to the message for 24 hours. I sent her a text drunk saying

“I was thinking about you..” “I don’t mind if you have a girlfriend coming into town I’ll entertain you both you know I’m smooth like that. Lol I’m just trying to get to you”


Anyways nothing. I sent her a few other texts and nothing. Sent her another text asking her if she smokes and I could come over and chill with her.

Now granted she probably thinks I’m a ****y mother****er, but she knows how I look. And she knows by the things I’m asking her that I have banged a lot of women just as hot as her. So why isn’t she responding to me? Just seems strange. Very rarely have I had a lead that hot go cold over a ****y text.

Now I know where she works..I don’t like to lead with Money boys but I have in desperate situations and this is one of those. Thinking about pulling up in the new massereti In a week or two. Sending someone inside to bring her to me. That or should I walk back in there?
she was not DTF and you came up too strong and gave a weirdo vibe

your good looks might help you but it is not all that matters in the seduction process . It just gives you more room to do small mistakes , that someone not gifted with good looks does not have the privilege of doing in the first place

and btw , that is not confidence it is only thirst
 
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Her friend coming into town was probably a man. You came off too ****sure IMO.
 

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@Bigpapa

Start here with my comment in page4:

 

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My confidence burned a 10/10 plate
Don't let beauty distract you because remember it will fade too and one day she will be looking like this no matter how hot she is:


So put less empathy on her looks and more focus on handle all women the same way.

Many guys get the "Deer in the headlight syndrome" with "OMG she's so hot" and then the di'ck brain takes over with less desirable outcome as a result lol. So ignore her beauty.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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@Bigpapa

Start here with my comment in page4:

the funny part is that you and @Pan87 are almost identical , almost like twin brothers or something lol

my bad @Hank Moody . Did not read the whole story before my comment
 

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Also prefer the advise of only the experienced vets to help me here. I want her...surprised she’s not responding to my style of game it usually works with women of her caliber. Like I said women 9 and above don’t go cold over being too ****y in my experience.
She's not a plate until you have slept with her. You come off Needy and Arrogant.
 

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Also prefer the advise of only the experienced vets to help me here. I want her...surprised she’s not responding to my style of game it usually works with women of her caliber. Like I said women 9 and above don’t go cold over being too ****y in my experience.
So acting thirsty and desperate usually works? I can't imagine it works for any length of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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