You realize orbiters exist when you fuk a girl on the first date and she laughs about all the guys who take her on multiple dinner dates and try to get in her pants, and she rejects them, and how annoying she finds them. Then her phone will start buzzing with texts from the sexless orbiters saying "I really enjoyed our dinner date last night and I can't wait to see you again soon." Chick laughs and rolls her eyes.
Women HATE transactional sex. And Betas like you think sexual attraction is bought in exchange for dinner dates.
What betas fail to realise is that women put men into 2 categories:
1. Provider (Orbiter, Beta)
2. Lover (Alpha)
She gets the provisioning and the ability to use a man as an emotional tampon in the Provider, while giving him a reluctant handjob once per year.
She gets the tingles, gets treated like sh!t (which she loves - women love a challenge) and the sexual domination from the Alpha.
You'll only realise it when you experience it for yourself. Woman will never tell you this because they want the free dinners and are perfectly ok with being taken to dinner by a beta, getting her ego stroked and then laughing at his blue balls.
PUA bloggers and Dating Coaches didn't RedPill me to Female Nature. Women RedPilled me by showing me how they behave.