That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Fvck Biden. He just ruined the sex tourism market for Colombia.Biden administration grants Venezuelans temporary protected status
President Joe Biden is fulfilling a campaign promise to allow Venezuelan exiles to live and work legally in the U.S. given the crisis in their home country.
I remember a few Venezuelan chicas in college; they all had nice figuras.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The 'walk across a continent' exercise plan helps, too.
In a poor country, that's true. Yes, walking hundreds to thousands of miles helps. In the United States though, poverty is often linked to obesity.
I think that's the UN's new "poon for food" program. I'm all for it.Biden administration grants Venezuelans temporary protected status
President Joe Biden is fulfilling a campaign promise to allow Venezuelan exiles to live and work legally in the U.S. given the crisis in their home country.
I remember a few Venezuelan chicas in college; they all had nice figuras.
There is one around here that loves blacks (says so in her ad) near my home and shes hot. But I dont want to get spiritually contaminated. Its interesting though. The going rate is $80 in these parts for full service and most of them try to attract black clients by posting booty pics and say blacks are welcome. They think that blacks just like the big booty. The more expensive ones say no blacks on their ads.
Yeah my experience with the local Venezuelans in Colombia, most of them didn't take on black clients.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes that is pretty much standard in the escort world.
It's no longer this cheap, but I know a place where about 20 years ago you could have gotten a good white woman for $7/hr.
I remember a gal in Amsterdam that on one trip wouldn't accept me (with my beard I can look a bit Middle Eastern
), but on the next trip (maybe I had trimmed my beard by then?), it was no problem. She turned out to be pretty cool.She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It is interesting how we both feel that cutting our hair is a whitemaxx since your southern European features can have you misidentified and I feel the same way about my hair. Did not know even those types.of Amsterdam escorts had some racist ones there too. But sadly its a worldwide problem and if you not a nordic white then you could have the same issues as a light skinned mixed race person.I remember a gal in Amsterdam that on one trip wouldn't accept me (with my beard I can look a bit Middle Eastern
Bro, this was in 2019 and it depends where you look and what you look like. If you're some ugly azz 300lb mofo, it's going to be at least $300+ LOLIt's no longer this cheap, but I know a place where about 20 years ago you could have gotten a good white woman for $7/hr.
