"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Ultimate Guide To Becoming A Beta Male!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
soulforge
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Don't know about SS members, but there are plenty of these types on social media & even some in my work place.
soulforge
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Definitely.. I know of a few guys like this.. This dude is describing most men on the Left to a fukin T
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bokanovsky
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soulforge
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100% a development.. I don't believe in a constant stream of coincidences.
Weak & broken men, entitled & self destructing females & broken families.. The ideal type of weak society that can be dominated & controlled.
Dash Riprock
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Yeah, this describes to a T a few members on this board. One newbie in particular. Most come here coachable looking for help, whom I'm happy to assist. Get all p*issy, overly sensitive, and self-righteous on me and go pound sand.
Thank god I was born in a different era. Many of the guys under 40 are born into this toxic masculinity BS mindset. Thankfully, with some good coaching and effort on their end, they can be re-programmed. Sadly, as @Glassguy said, some are beyond hope.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SW15
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I'm under 40. I had to go through beta de-programming. I never believed masculinity was toxic. Masculinity is great.
