I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh man, that was actually hard and painful to watch.Meet Scott Jessop, better known by his nickname “Skippy.” He’s a 43 year old virgin who’s saving himself for marriage since he’s a pretty strong believer in the Mormon religion. Years ago, he appeared on TLC’s show Virgin Diaries and some of you might’ve seen him on there and remember him from that. Back then he was in his mid 30’s and still living at home with his mom while also collecting his own bellybutton lint (not joking about that last one). He’s since moved out, but one thing that hasn’t changed from back then is that he’s still extremely awkward around girls and always manages to turn them off. He’s tried to turn his appearance on the show and his virgin status into his own brand by selling Skippy t shirts, stickers, and even rape whistles (he also gives these items to the girls who go on a date with him). He’s also obsessed with becoming famous on YouTube so he records almost every date that he goes on, then unsurprisingly never gets a second date after that. He’s also done things on these dates like take a girl out to dinner at a hospital cafeteria, text another girl that he went out on a first date with 40 times and then show up at her house unannounced with Klondike bars when she didn’t respond to his texts, and even asked a girl who friend zoned him if she’s been having sex with a different guy she started seeing.
This guy needs help if he ever wants to achieve the things he’s been wanting, starting with dropping the nickname Skippy. That’s the easiest change he can make that requires almost zero effort, here’s some of his videos doing the things I mentioned:
Wow, humanity is doomed with these guys.. amazingly creepy.No I'm pretty sure its a character actor.
But these guys are real.
Wait till 01:00
Btw, a con is an amazing place to pickup women.
Somehow it doesn't surprise me tho. With these weird nerd dudes all chicks are just screaming to get away from these creeps lol.Btw, a con is an amazing place to pickup women.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do fat girls countWe should all descend upon the next major con and see who goes home alone.
This is what I thought when I watched this too.But first things first, how is he getting these dates? They all look pretty decent and sounded pretty chill. Is he catfishing these girls? What's going on there? We're so confused.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have no idea how he’s gotten these dates, a lot of people who subscribe to his YouTube channel have been wondering the same thing, he’s said before that he is on all of the most popular dating apps, so its possible that he’s just been catfishing these girls, he’s never shown what his profile looks like on any of the apps. You might be onto something when you mention natural selection, he did a livestream the other day and he said that his mom had a feeling ever since he was 5 that he would never give her grandchildren and he said that she told him that once he entered his 40’s, maybe she just instinctively knew. He’s tried to find a girl within his church and sphere of influence, he’s gotten these same results.Oh man, that was actually hard and painful to watch.
But first things first, how is he getting these dates? They all look pretty decent and sounded pretty chill. Is he catfishing these girls? What's going on there? We're so confused.
Second, we know this is going to sound very hardcore and cruel but there's this thing called Natural Selection via survival of the fittest. Some genes are not meant or designed to be passed on. Simple as that. Could this guy get better? Of course. A lot of work and time would need to be invested but it's possible to get him to a decent level.
Third, because of this belief system, he is only further making it harder for him to develop himself and potentially finding a mate. He has a better chance at finding a mate within his church or sphere of influence.
Lastly, is this real or a Youtube character playing pranks? It seems super made up.
Modern Man Advice
Lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a young gamer nerd.We should all descend upon the next major con and see who goes home alone.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I’ve seen guys who are nothing to look at get dates with decent women. Just because they try.I have no idea how he’s gotten these dates, a lot of people who subscribe to his YouTube channel have been wondering the same thing, he’s said before that he is on all of the most popular dating apps, so its possible that he’s just been catfishing these girls, he’s never shown what his profile looks like on any of the apps. You might be onto something when you mention natural selection, he did a livestream the other day and he said that his mom had a feeling ever since he was 5 that he would never give her grandchildren and he said that she told him that once he entered his 40’s, maybe she just instinctively knew. He’s tried to find a girl within his church and sphere of influence, he’s gotten these same results.
It’s actually real, he’s not a YouTube character putting on an act. He’s even been on CNN and been interviewed by Dr. Drew, check out the video from CNN’s YouTube channel.