You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah this is a huge thing with OLD now....guys don't want to meet. They will text for a month or two before trying to meet up. No idea why but by meeting quickly you will definitely stand out in a positive way.
I know why because I do it sometimes. I know it is the opposite of what I just said but I do it because I only have limited time for dates. And when the number of girls that want to go out with me exceed the time I have, I don't suggest meeting right away or try to make small talk to string them along until I have free time to meet them.
exactly, i was just gonna say that. If you got a few spinning its hard to schedule sometimes. I have 4 options for this weekend, not sure which one to choose. I'll pick one and invite her over friday night but then anything after that will have to be scheduled on the fly depending on how that one plays out. So i'll have to keep the others interested til i have time for them. I have a hard time spinning anything over 2 but like you said it comes in waves and they dry up fast too. Trying to get a mixture of FWB, local women for during the week and a few out of towners for weekends.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Also another reason seems to be that the guys have gained a bunch of weight or are using old pics and know the woman won't go for it so they try and build up some "connection" prior in the hopes they overlook this. I have heard something similar from many different women where the guys message them for a long time and don't want to meet but then they do and he is like 50 lbs overweight and the pics are from 10 years ago.I know why because I do it sometimes. I know it is the opposite of what I just said but I do it because I only have limited time for dates. And when the number of girls that want to go out with me exceed the time I have, I don't suggest meeting right away or try to make small talk to string them along until I have free time to meet them.
This week I'm meeting with a different girl every night from Tuesday to Friday. Two are new and the other two are existing plates. I'm not trying to brag but OLD comes in waves for me. Nothing one week and everything the next. You just gotta roll with it the best you can.
you make a good point
Agree with that scenario too but I also find it works the other way around. Girls have also gotten fat and somehow thinking good conversations will make you somehow overlook their weight gain or age gain. I've had this happen to me when I first started dating again.
" @LookatuYour buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She’s so shy she went on www.Tinder.com, uplodaed hot pictures of herself so 6’1 guys could accept or swipe right.
